"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Frustrating Mixed Signals

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Im a senior and i hang out with a group of sophmore chicks every now and then. The one girl in their group used to be obsessed with me last spring but shes not hot at all and I wasnt having it. She probobly still likes me. Anyway, I get really mixed signals from her friends who are all pretty hot but havent really gone out with many guys. But each and everyone of them give real mixed signals like theyll be flirting with me with alot of kino one minute then next minute they call me buddy or theyll stop talkin to me. I dont put up with any sh*t tho and im like the leader. But for the most part the good signals of attraction far outway the bad ones. But im getting really frustrated.



Anyway I know this is complete anti-DJ, but im thinking about like polling everyone of them and just asking them straight up if they like me or if they would get with me... I dunno guys i need some help with this cause i really want a gf for the winter thats like my goal right now... so what should i do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bad move if you do that. Makes you seem desperate or needy.

My trick would be to try to reverse the roles. Make yourself the prize and make them know it. PLAY hard to get and have fun. I'll bet some of them are actually interested in you, but you need to get them to start chasing you. Don't get too frustrated. Mixed signals usually are good signals, so don't sweat it. Just use game on them and you'll get good results.

-Damian
 
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i kno its not dj but that has worked for me before like ill ask a chick if she would get with me and then if she says yes its like all good from then on
 
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Originally posted by theNEWDJ
i kno its not dj but that has worked for me before like ill ask a chick if she would get with me and then if she says yes its like all good from then on
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Not bad if it was one-on-one and you guys have already been out on a few dates, but its not time for that one yet.

You'er 17.. I'm assuming you drive. Ask the one you like most to Jamba Juice or Starbucks after school. You'll find they're more interesting without their goofy friends around.
 
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