“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Frustrating as fvck.

Crazy Asian

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I have no problem starting convos with people. Although i'm scared sh1tless when it's a hot girl, i still do it. But in groups, i'm always the person nobody wants to talk to. I want to be the center of the group, and the person that everybody likes.

dam, can someone just try and find some posts on how to be looked up to, and how to be the one getting the attention from the group?
thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nightcrawler

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I have your problem and I'm going on 21 soon:crackup:

I can't be alpha..people don't **** with me though. I guess I can command respect but I'm simply not an interesting person.

Read more books or something I guess....God I should follow my own advice.
 

ezily

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what's a specific situation?

i used to be like that. However, as soon as I started to speak up and talk about something interesting people listened to me. If it is in a class in college and I have a group work I just take the initiative to talk to people. They then enjoy themselves as we work. This has worked because most of the time people don't know each other and are all afraid to really say anything.

However, you are only 16. You have a disadvantage because in HS everyone usually knows each other. If you have a bad rep then you're kinda screwed from the get go. Also, I think you're taking things too personally. Just lighten up some and don't look so tense. that could help. btw, actually talking and speaking up wouldn't hurt.
 
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