"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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From zero to hero, The DJ awakes...

Credos

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The past 2 weeks have been... Bizare...

Lets start at the start :p two weeks ago saturday...

The day I was 2 months with my gf, HB8, my best score so far, I love her... Saw her that day, gave he r 2 roses(was planning to steal them in somebodies garden :D, cause i didn't wanna spend money on a female but I kept i decent and did the right thing, it were cheap roses :D) We went out that night, i got kinda tipsy having a lot of fun, and all of my mates were at the party. She doesnt really know any of my friends so she goes to her mates once and a while. So she disappears, and I ended up dancing with a good friend(female friend) of mine, she's fun and very dumb, she doesnt have a shot with me, but as girls normally are my GF was jealous as hell.. I say "hey, youre pissed, why?(i already knew why but i played dumb :p)" but she kept telling me she wassen't and didnt give me a look... I say i'm going to my mates again and a few mins later return... She says shouldn't you go to your mates?! (I'm thinking WTF?! played it cool and smiled while i said) you want me gone? she answers "yes".(that night i was kinda pissed, got myself wasted, barely found the way home, good party :up:) So as stuborn as i am i don't call her cause she wanted me gone dumb B*tch :p. I message her wednesday asking her if she's still pissed, she sends a message to me, telling me she rather be friends. I'm kinda freaking at that time, called her asking why she's doing this etc... (she sends me she HATES it that i call her when she's on the train blablabla, damn i should dumb her... damn she's to hot... that was thee way I was thinking) Again that night getting wasted, was KO at 8 pm... So she asks for a break (LoL she wants to fvck a other, wh*re(i think :whistle: )... BTW she still hasen't told me why she's dumping me...)

Sooooo we end up at this week, with nice silence... My weekend was sh*t... Sunday i get on the train see a mate of mine, drank some of his booze he had on him (college, party everday, HBs everywhere -> there is a god) He gets off the train and this HB8.5 comes and sits in front of me(again I repeat, there is a god) Anyway my gf made me kinda AFC again but the djscream was inside of me, waking up again... Had some good ec, good smiles from her, when she got of she was constantly making EC... I felt that nice warmth inside again, the sleeper had awoken... :up: Soooooo monday I started building up my social proof in my college city (I LOVE IT THERE LoL) So got myself a good bar, 2 girls(only going for hb7+) i can prolly score with. Wednesday I went to a other bar to get some social proof going on there too, ofcourse i picked out the 2 most crowded bars. Sooooo I'm ready again for a new start and i got a nice excuse for not wanting a relationship, I'm still not over my last GF(YEA RIGHT LOOOOOOOOOL)

Anyway today(friday i finished the deal) My gf still had my jacked so i messaged her i was going to get it back today.. She was constantly switching hour, anyway she's just a hard women i should've dumbed i guess, but she's so hot lol, how can i break up with a girl like that :D. So I went over there, thinking we're gonna talk, maybe make up. Now i'm standing at the door, she opens, asks me inside, i was kinda nerveus cause well I didnt knew what was going to happen so, i dont like that feeling... She was looking like she wanted to talk, but I'm sure we both felt akward... Anyway i took the jacked said i had to go and SLAMED the door in her face... (lol the senario i had in mind was more like we making up, blabla)

For the first freaking time I did the hard thing but the right thing... If she wants me back she should be BEGGING for me, she doesnt realise what she lost... And to think that i said sorry that wednesday while i didnt even know why she wanted to break up...

Got a double feeling now, i feel bad cause i lost my gf, but in the end i know i did the right thing, in time all wounds heal. So now I'm done with relationships for a while and gonna start going out and try out a few (lets start with a low number and raise it along the way) girls.

Any comments on my post are welcome, oppinions on what i should have done too, alwayse fun to read :up:. Ciao
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol, i stand corrected, by the way, we aren't all english or americans, so if I write wrong, stop being a *ss about it, you understand what i'm saying :kick:
 

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Credos said:
Lol, i stand corrected, by the way, we aren't all english or americans, so if I write wrong, stop being a *ss about it, you understand what i'm saying :kick:
Barely.

The way you write is very difficult to read, and I find it almost disrespectful when someone doesn't take the time to spell correctly. It's called spell-check, use it.
 

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Give the guy a break, lighten up fellas!:crazy:




Anyways, ya you did the right thing. Start with a small # is good too, it makes things seem easier and then it becomes easier as a result. i doing the same thing actually! i said to myself id get in a relationship w/ 4 different girls this semester..so far its only 2, but ive got alot of poon from randoms becuase of the attittude change. Ahh its fun being back in the game, been taking some time away from girls to work on myself(gym, style, intelligence).

Keep it up and get back to us at the end of each week with how u doin and what progress u making.:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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Reality, sorry that my spelling correction is only my language... Btw I am doing my best to write right... :p

Thx for backing me up :p BluEyes. Its also good to hear that people share the same ideas like me :up:. I plan to get some more social proof this week, and try to get some numbercloses. I'll also ask one of my friends to introduce me to some of his mates, thats alwayse a easy way to get new contacts too... :whistle:

I'll keep you guys informed on what's happening here each week... :up:
Cheers mates
 

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Monday:
As I decided to enhance my social proof I started at the café near my college… Just playing some regular bar games like foosball… I went out and like I said I met some of my friend his mates. One guy of them is a player but nothing near a DJ, as he told me he could only score when he was drunk, anyway, the guy might come in handy. So we did some bars, had some fun, little field practice but nothing really serious, only one girl I’ve seen at the gym where I live that I talked to for the first time. She’s a HB7.5 something like that… She seemed pretty interested, anyway she told me she was going to see me Friday so I’ll finish the deal then and get her number.

I need to work a little on my sarging though, I’m going to quickly do some of the exercises from the boot camp again. Funny quote I heard today that you guys might like too was from a song from Rammstein called “Buck dich”, “das gesicht, intresseert mich nicht.” I really cracked up when I heard it :D. Tomorrow I might go to student union party, cause its introduction day but I’m not sure yet cause they seem like a boring bunch, so I’ll see, else its going to be the exercises I talked about…
 

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Tuesday
Today, initiation began once again… As it seemed that my DJ skills, if I ever had any have faded quite fast. The basic exercises went well, some nice EC with smiles, sometimes the ladies looked back so I knew that my EC still wasn’t the problem… Made some approaches but none of them ended up really well so tomorrow I’m planning to make some approaches at daytime, because I never was well at that outside my working place.

The parties went well though, and I learned how to force my friends into introducing their friends (and girlfriends ;), which is a easy way to expand my social circle and getting to know some new HB’s. At the end of the night I realised something when I said hi to a girl (who didn’t respond by the way thank you very much, ugly…). I can only compare women with one animal, and that’s the spider, you see, some people fear the spider that they run away from them, and some people just grab the spider by the legs and put it outside, while it’s the spider who fears the human. Some guys fear women and run away from approaching them, and some guys just learned that there’s nothing to fear, and that sometimes (like walking in the street and male strangers saying hello) women fear men. Funny isn’t it? Anyway tomorrow daytime approaches, I hope ;)…
 

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PHP:
Wednesday
Things turned out different as planned, did a road trip, had lots of fun but no real chances to practice… So I read some parts in the dj bible and tomorrow will be practicing day I guess. :)

Thursday
Everything went nice today, had some sleep in the afternoon cause I was extremely tired and went to a major party in the night. Lol I did more approaches then I ever did, got nervous some times but hey it worked out well. I probably approached 25 women or something, all in the same bar, most of the time they were in groups, but it was easy to start talking to one person. Also I used some of my friends again to introduce me to people. I’ll probably won’t remember most of the women their name but it was just approach practice nothing serious, no number closes or anything, cause the HB’s had guys on them like flies on a piece of sh*t. I cracked up when I saw it, I already knew none of them were going home with her, and all her girlfriends were dance with each other, so I approached them instead, and I had a much better time than those losers sticking on a HB, LOL. I saw she was checking me once and a while, but I didn’t care about her, I was there to have some fun and meet new people, so only asked her name and kept it really short from there on, and then moved on to some other women. Soooo next thing on the schedule is doing some numbercloses I guess, though it won’t be for this weekend I think because I’m home then, not really a good place to DJ. Tomorrow I’ll try to numberclose the girl from Monday that I knew from the gym, hope it works out :).
 

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I have no fvcking idea what you wrote in the first post, but uhmmm good job!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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:crackup: Centaurion...

In short, my girlfriend dumped me, I left some stuff at her place so went to pick it up and instead of being the AFC in the relation AGAIN, for once I did the right thing and slamed the door in her face :p instead of saying sorry for something I didn't do, and now I'm recovering again from my AFC relationship to more of a DJ... something like that :up:
 
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