"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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From the Horse's Mouth

Sir-M

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aka Never Underestimate the opposition - i met this girl a two weeks back.. she is petite, very cute and sweet... so i was nice on her. During the weekend we went to a party and ended up back at her place.. fastforward the foreplay and then she told me she couldnt fvck me..... because she liked me!!!

she then explained that if i had been a jerk and a little ****ier she would have gladly humped me knowing that she wouldnt really have to see me again and would probably meet in the corridors and just say hi to each other with no other strings attached.. So i got tired of that story, told her to shut the fvck up and come over to my side, from then on i was running the show.. commanding her to do what i wanted.. at the end of the day i fvcked her

Anyone been in a situation like this?? if you get her to like you.. she wont screw ya, dont be nice ...Post comments please
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wolf116

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The chicks I have fvcked have all said I was the nicest guy they have ever meet.

I think it may have something to do with your foreplay, I have some real skills in this area. A chick shaking with horniness will not turn you away.
 

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wolf116 said:
The chicks I have fvcked have all said I was the nicest guy they have ever meet.
awww.. how shweet..:flowers:

wolf116 said:
I think it may have something to do with your foreplay, I have some real skills in this area.
:nono: I have real skills too.. whilst i think that may have been ASD. i really dont know
 

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Sounds like you were a little AFC in the beginning but then slipped into a dj mindset once you realized your mistake... good recovery
 

Telos

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Make sure you don't turn into an emotional b1tch next time you see her. ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For some girls a first night fvck equals a ONS. They will hold off a little if they think the guy is LTR material. It is about keeping value and not appearing too cheap.
 
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