"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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From the horse's mouth.

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Hey guys, sup. My girl-friend said this to me in an email... it's just a sentence, but I thought it was very useful to know, especially interesting since a girl says it. We've got a good relation, her and I... I can actually talk about attraction with her and she responds with what she actually thinks, not just PC "what SHOULD attract me" BS. Anyway:
it's so *hawt* if a guy challenges what u say. hehe
There you have it. Not revolutionary, but AFCs take note.:rockon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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a sycophantic suck up with no backbone just annoys any one to no end.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol chicks love when you do the..

Girl "I'm so smart.. blah blah."
You "lol, no your not.."

^ Example.

They get all instantly flustered and smiley and stuff..

No idea why.. It always works though on just about every girl.
And yeah they like it.

Doesn' mean she'll suck your d!ck right there but yeah, something I've noticed.

It has something to do with the whole challenge theory... I dun know. Kinda stupid. Mabye they saw it one of those brainwashing teenage chick flicks. But it works like that with all of them even with them well into their 20s.
 
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