"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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From the horse's mouth.

Gubby

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Hey guys, sup. My girl-friend said this to me in an email... it's just a sentence, but I thought it was very useful to know, especially interesting since a girl says it. We've got a good relation, her and I... I can actually talk about attraction with her and she responds with what she actually thinks, not just PC "what SHOULD attract me" BS. Anyway:
it's so *hawt* if a guy challenges what u say. hehe
There you have it. Not revolutionary, but AFCs take note.:rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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synergy1

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a sycophantic suck up with no backbone just annoys any one to no end.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bvbidd

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lol chicks love when you do the..

Girl "I'm so smart.. blah blah."
You "lol, no your not.."

^ Example.

They get all instantly flustered and smiley and stuff..

No idea why.. It always works though on just about every girl.
And yeah they like it.

Doesn' mean she'll suck your d!ck right there but yeah, something I've noticed.

It has something to do with the whole challenge theory... I dun know. Kinda stupid. Mabye they saw it one of those brainwashing teenage chick flicks. But it works like that with all of them even with them well into their 20s.
 
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