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Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2005
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I want just to say a BIG thanks to the cool DJs on here. It’s refreshing to know that there is a community online to unplug from the brainwashing I was raised on.
On this date, I had a rough break up exactly a year ago with an ex (that had Borderline Personality Disorder) and I thought it was sane to play captainsaveaho role. I had a LDR with her for 5 months and shared my virginity. My older brother gave me this URL when she dumped me and I began reflecting life and what to do next.
I was on sleeping pills for a month solid, but stayed on the strict path to learning the DJ philosophy…
Much to DJs persuasion, I studied and applied the 48 Laws of Power to combat oneitis. I disappeared like Kyser Soze, deleted #, myspace account, photos, and anything I had of hers.
Man did it sure make her head spin when I didn’t beg her back like all her previous AFC exes. :crackup:
She pursued me for months via SMS and emails even though she already had a new bad boy while I held a strict discipline of ZERO contact. My guess it was just her needing affirmation for dumping me and not seeming like a slvt by offering friendship (puts responsibility back on me).
It’s true what they say guys, “Out of sight, out of mind.” (As time goes on, if not immediately)
Nothing beats the calm after a storm.
SS has instilled hope back into me and helped me undue the brainwashing and soul-mate myths I grew up with as well as following the Bootcamp for finding confidence. To track my progress, view my Approachzilla thread on here. The ploy was to discover social dynamics and become the alpha male like every other rAFC through various techniques.
I’ve mentioned this site to my friends, but they aren’t ready to unplug and consider a different point of view.
I did the whole PUA route this year, but now I’m just focusing on my inner game and career path.
Right now, I’m just doing casual dating in my mid 20s as a choice to self-improve. I’ve had k-closes at clubs/bars, and two f-closes, but keeping a low profile until my career takes off. I even LJBF 3 girls that flirted with me endlessly this year – where back in my days I would leapt at the opportunity to date them and put them up on a pedestal and cough up all my “feelings” for them without physical action.
I credit SS for killing my neediness for a g/f and being able to read Red Flags as quickly as they appear.
Thanks to all the mature DJs that helped me resolve questions I had in PMs. I learned a TON of wisdom from you guys. There are some really brilliant people on this board (still!). :yes:
I’ve written more about my experiences and insights of my past year on my DJ Blog since the space is limited here.
Only after my worst break up ever, was I then ready to set my ego aside and self-exam myself. I realized I had been making the same mistakes over and over in relationships.
As Senior Fingers would put it, I took a long hard look in the mirror – and to me it seemed like an eternity passed in a moment. It was the first time I’ve ever stared at my own self image and wondered who I was and what I really stood for.
Keep believing the material in the DJ bible. DJing is the healthiest lifestyle to life. It protects your time and heart and as well as help you discover stronger confidence along the path.
On this date, I had a rough break up exactly a year ago with an ex (that had Borderline Personality Disorder) and I thought it was sane to play captainsaveaho role. I had a LDR with her for 5 months and shared my virginity. My older brother gave me this URL when she dumped me and I began reflecting life and what to do next.
I was on sleeping pills for a month solid, but stayed on the strict path to learning the DJ philosophy…
Much to DJs persuasion, I studied and applied the 48 Laws of Power to combat oneitis. I disappeared like Kyser Soze, deleted #, myspace account, photos, and anything I had of hers.
Man did it sure make her head spin when I didn’t beg her back like all her previous AFC exes. :crackup:
She pursued me for months via SMS and emails even though she already had a new bad boy while I held a strict discipline of ZERO contact. My guess it was just her needing affirmation for dumping me and not seeming like a slvt by offering friendship (puts responsibility back on me).
It’s true what they say guys, “Out of sight, out of mind.” (As time goes on, if not immediately)
Nothing beats the calm after a storm.
SS has instilled hope back into me and helped me undue the brainwashing and soul-mate myths I grew up with as well as following the Bootcamp for finding confidence. To track my progress, view my Approachzilla thread on here. The ploy was to discover social dynamics and become the alpha male like every other rAFC through various techniques.
I’ve mentioned this site to my friends, but they aren’t ready to unplug and consider a different point of view.
I did the whole PUA route this year, but now I’m just focusing on my inner game and career path.
Right now, I’m just doing casual dating in my mid 20s as a choice to self-improve. I’ve had k-closes at clubs/bars, and two f-closes, but keeping a low profile until my career takes off. I even LJBF 3 girls that flirted with me endlessly this year – where back in my days I would leapt at the opportunity to date them and put them up on a pedestal and cough up all my “feelings” for them without physical action.
I credit SS for killing my neediness for a g/f and being able to read Red Flags as quickly as they appear.
Thanks to all the mature DJs that helped me resolve questions I had in PMs. I learned a TON of wisdom from you guys. There are some really brilliant people on this board (still!). :yes:
I’ve written more about my experiences and insights of my past year on my DJ Blog since the space is limited here.
Only after my worst break up ever, was I then ready to set my ego aside and self-exam myself. I realized I had been making the same mistakes over and over in relationships.
As Senior Fingers would put it, I took a long hard look in the mirror – and to me it seemed like an eternity passed in a moment. It was the first time I’ve ever stared at my own self image and wondered who I was and what I really stood for.
Keep believing the material in the DJ bible. DJing is the healthiest lifestyle to life. It protects your time and heart and as well as help you discover stronger confidence along the path.