Hercules20
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Well an interesting turn of events happened during this last week. It all started with my oneitis and I going on a road trip and ended a few days later on her bed.
Basically we went on this awesome road trip.. it rocked! We both ended up having an incredible time together (sightseeing, dining out, shopping, etc.) After the trip, I could tell that she was starting to develop feelings for me. She was constantly calling me to hang out and whenever we were together she was far more physical and close then usual. She was also very adament about the idea of just her and I hanging out, no one else.
So by this time I knew that I had to strike while the iron was hot. Her and I decided to meet up the next night for drinks at a restaurant. I was reading up on eye contact the night before and decided to apply it heavy tonight. Well from the start of the night I knew things were going well. I was applying like 75% more eye contact than usual, and her reactions were amazing. She had this look of love in her eyes and after we left the restaurant she couldn't keep her hands off of me.
When we arrived at her house, we kicked it downstairs to her bedroom and she closed and locked the door behind me. We were both drunk at this point and she decided that she just wanted to lay down on her bed and relax with the lights off. She was wearing a tube top shirt, so I started to massage her back and kiss her gently in certain spots of her back. I eventually worked my way up to her neck and from there it was all over. I went in for the kill and let me tell you don juans, that first
'forbidden' kiss between you and your oneitis is absolutely incredible!
I decided to split that morning and leave her thinking about the incredible time we just had together. That next evening she called my cellular 5 times and when I called her back she wanted just the two of us to hang out. But I figured that it's probably better not to get too tied up right away, so I told her that I had plans. The next night she ended up crashing at my place, and we had round two.
I've noticed that her behavior has changed incredibly. We've been best friends for 2+ years and there is a huge difference in the way she acts. She's always touching me, staring at me, holding my hand, talks in a sexier tone, and whenever we make eye contact she has a completely different look in her eyes. It's exactly how Mr. Finger's described it in his post about Leaving the Friends Zone.
Overall I'm liking the change of events between the two of us, but Im unsure of what will happen in the next few weeks. I have this gut feeling that I will lose interest all of a sudden. It's one of those "If you can't have it, you want it more, but if you get it, you want it less." sort of deals.
Has anyone else broken past the friends only zone with a oneitis? If so what happened after all of this?
Basically we went on this awesome road trip.. it rocked! We both ended up having an incredible time together (sightseeing, dining out, shopping, etc.) After the trip, I could tell that she was starting to develop feelings for me. She was constantly calling me to hang out and whenever we were together she was far more physical and close then usual. She was also very adament about the idea of just her and I hanging out, no one else.
So by this time I knew that I had to strike while the iron was hot. Her and I decided to meet up the next night for drinks at a restaurant. I was reading up on eye contact the night before and decided to apply it heavy tonight. Well from the start of the night I knew things were going well. I was applying like 75% more eye contact than usual, and her reactions were amazing. She had this look of love in her eyes and after we left the restaurant she couldn't keep her hands off of me.
When we arrived at her house, we kicked it downstairs to her bedroom and she closed and locked the door behind me. We were both drunk at this point and she decided that she just wanted to lay down on her bed and relax with the lights off. She was wearing a tube top shirt, so I started to massage her back and kiss her gently in certain spots of her back. I eventually worked my way up to her neck and from there it was all over. I went in for the kill and let me tell you don juans, that first
'forbidden' kiss between you and your oneitis is absolutely incredible!
I decided to split that morning and leave her thinking about the incredible time we just had together. That next evening she called my cellular 5 times and when I called her back she wanted just the two of us to hang out. But I figured that it's probably better not to get too tied up right away, so I told her that I had plans. The next night she ended up crashing at my place, and we had round two.
I've noticed that her behavior has changed incredibly. We've been best friends for 2+ years and there is a huge difference in the way she acts. She's always touching me, staring at me, holding my hand, talks in a sexier tone, and whenever we make eye contact she has a completely different look in her eyes. It's exactly how Mr. Finger's described it in his post about Leaving the Friends Zone.
Overall I'm liking the change of events between the two of us, but Im unsure of what will happen in the next few weeks. I have this gut feeling that I will lose interest all of a sudden. It's one of those "If you can't have it, you want it more, but if you get it, you want it less." sort of deals.
Has anyone else broken past the friends only zone with a oneitis? If so what happened after all of this?
