From housewife to Hor

[Hyper2010]

Let's examine this situation

Struggling to get it in my head as to whethr I've lost something great or given up something bad

Dated someone for a while who hadn't had much luck with guys, been messed about on, been used, had FB level self esteem and self respect

Whilst with me she became happy. Changed into good girl mode etc

Split a month or so ago and now she's back on pof and I found out other day back to screwing the same idiots for sex only off pof

My question is? When she "'changed""into bring good, was she still the same tramp underneath in which case I she was never really mine AMD I'm better off without her

 

[WTID]

How do you know she's been used by guys in the past as she puts it jeez surely she can say no, sounds like you became her white knight, and then she got bored of you as you became predictable .
That's my guess From the little info you provided

 

[betheman]

Let's examine this situation

Struggling to get it in my head as to whethr I've lost something great or given up something bad

Dated someone for a while who hadn't had much luck with guys, been messed about on, been used, had FB level self esteem and self respect

Whilst with me she became happy. Changed into good girl mode etc

Split a month or so ago and now she's back on pof and I found out other day back to screwing the same idiots for sex only off pof

My question is? When she "'changed""into bring good, was she still the same tramp underneath in which case I she was never really mine AMD I'm better off without her

Absolutely! she had a go and being the good girl but the real person just couldnt hack it. 'bad luck with guys in the past'??? pumped and dumped because she was trash! it is never bad luck, that phrase is total BS

 

[Hyper2010]

By way of an explanation, she had been on POF and literally just meeting guys for sex. Some told her straight away the situation but she did it any way, some played nice guy and never re appeared after getting pvssy etc. Never quite bought it that anyone could become THAT much of a fiction, I mean fair enough it could happen once or twice but not over years with numerous blokes

I'd agree with the white knight comment however

It feels like I met her, and she though 'nice ' or 'safe' bloke and decided to see what she could get. She was talking about life, future, moving in etc, all of which she brought up.

Just seems strange she went back to bed hopping immediately
after we ended.

My point is that she was the same slvtty person all along, but the only thing that changed was her situation and NOT her.

Guess a leopard can't change its spots after all