from hot to cold....

[Demodulate]

I have been talking to a girl for about 2 weeks now..

everything seemed to be going well till two days ago she just broke contact...

I called once.. Emailed once.. Ive resigned myself to the fact that somethings up, and im not going contact her anymore.. but whats proper ettiquet after the fact.. do you just not call ever again, or wait a few weeks and see whats up... I am totally curious as to what went down...

beyond the not calling what would you guys do??

 

[Docs]

Drop Contact Attack.

Attack Strengths: Mind fucking.

Attack Weaknesses: Not appearing affected, not calling, bumping into her a few weeks later 'busy'.

I should make trading cards! lol

 

[The_Becoming]

Hmmm... normally I'd say just next her, but sounds like you've already invested sometime. I've done this a few times with some sucess: Don't initiate any contact for a couple months and get on with your life... then if you feel like it a couple months from now shoot her an e-mail "Tell her your sorry for not keeping in touch with her but you've been sooo busy (tell her something cool you've been doing in life) and ask her a question about something that was going on in her life and how did it turn out."

Everytime I do this I get the e-mail back "I've missed you sooo much!" or "I've been thinking about you" and I always seem to end up going out with them... odds are if nothing better is going on in her life, she'll probably will be wondering about you, but would never think of re-initiating contact on her own...

In the meantime as long as you're not wasting your time thinking about her you've got nothing to lose by shooting her an e-mail a couple months from now.

 

[Demodulate]

just kills me not knowing what went down...

I got an quick email one day saying she was working late.. sent one back the next day saying I was having dinner with a friend.. and that was it..

im totally confounded...

we had plans this weekend and I have no idea what went down...

never been given the shut out like this before and its killing me.. usually I get a reason for the brush off...