"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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From **** buddies to make out buddies

HOSS83

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I met this girl a few weeks ago at a club, took her home and we fvcked.

Date #2, she came over for Monday Night Football and we fvcked.

Date #3, we went to a party, then fvcked.

Now date #4 was last night. She's coming over to hang out, I'm thinking, cool, easy lay. Wrong :mad: I get a Dikembe Mutombo-esque block as I tried to go down her pants last night. She wants to "start over and pretend none of that ever happened" because she "really likes me" and "never does that with guys", and I "dont act like I like her"... How can I keep this girl around as a F-buddy?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NewMan

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you've hit it 3 out of 4 times......

the key is to not care - don't pressure and don't get pi##ed off.

continue to do what your doing (and I suspect you don't want anything more than to be a fvck buddy).

don't increase the number of times you see her or what you do.

See her 2 more times - if she's doesn't put out, then move on.
 

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Every consider she that is just having her period?

Don't change anything. You are just getting a verbalization of her damage shield pinging.
 
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