"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have been friends with this girl for years and we have both been attracted to each other. We dated once for a couple of months and broke u during the summer. Now, both her and I, are both single. I have tried to see if a spark is still there. She has sent mixed signals such as telling me she really would like me to come to an FCA meeting and telling me that it would mean the world to her if I could come to one of her track meets. I don't know what it all means. I want to find out how she feels without damaging what we already have.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ok the way i see it u cant hurt anything by fufilling her request....and if you want to get close to her tell her so...if ur friends she'll hear u out. She could just be trying to get u more into her life...first with recreational stuff then...who knows!
 
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So I went to the event with her and the whole time she was showing me to all her friends and instead of calling me over grabbing by my hand or ass to get me to come over.
 
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Since you two dated previously, I would take this one a bit slower.

Just chill and observe her. If she keeps flirting, flirt back. If she looks interested, show her you're interested. Spend more time with her, in and out of school. Pretty soon she'll get the idea. When she steps it up, you do the same. Smile, be friendly, and make her feel loved.

It's good that it seems the previous relationship ended on a good note. Right now she WANTS you to spend more time with her, and she's flirting, she WANTS you to flirt back.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Let me know how the sex change operation goes, and when you go "From BF to GF"

It sounds like you have the right idea.

GOOD LUCK



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maybe she just wants to spend time with you, getting back with ex's is not a good idea at all. In my opinion if she likes you, let her do the chasing
 
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there's nothing bad at all about spending time (esp if it's cuddling or something like that (i'm a sucker for that -_-))
 
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