Sir Shags Alot
Senior Don Juan
I will make this as short as possible. I break up with 3yr LTR because she cheated on me, I was a AFC. I find this site work on skills and a couple months later am macking. I am getting about 4 new numbers a week. Feeling good, don't want a relationship, working out, never been better in my life. Then I meet HB9. I hit it up the first night. After that she seemed like she got attached right away. First flag I ignored. So I have her right where I want her. I slowly see that the things I loved to do before meeting her were slowly disappering. She was still hooked, becuase I was using the skills I learned.
One morning I wake up and I don't feel the same about her. I start to back out the the relationship by totally ignoring her....even when she is at the house. She notices and starts to go out. I then talk to her and say that I don't want her around as much and I need some time to work out my emotions. She gets all offended takes all her **** out of my house and leaves. I feel empty and hurt inside. I turn into afc when I should have let her go. Anyways I start to smother her with wuss and she ends up cheating on me. I feel it might have been going on for a while but being the afc I turned back into I took her word that everything is good when I knew it wasn't. I caught her this weekend, I told a mutual friend and they told her. She dosn't call until monday...this happened friday. I didn't anwser at first, she called once, then again, and again, so on and so forth. I finally called her back and I told her that I could never trust her and it is over. She starts bawling, I can't take it and breakdown. I now feel worse. She calls me again today to say she is going to pick up her ****, and acts all depressed. Making me feel bad again. I know she is the type that is going to call me over and over and over again, even though she is already living with this new guy. Since catching her Saturday morning I have been keeping myself busy. But I can't get my mind off of her. She calls me at work, she is comming over tonight to get her ****....I can't handle it...I don't ever want to speak or see her again, but I sit there and listen to my phone ring not anwsering it and it tears me up even more. I have been feeling sick, and depressed, and not wanting to do anything but think about her. It is really bad for me! Luckly I have a great friend that came over to my house and took me out of the house! Help!!! How do I break these destructive relationship habits.
One morning I wake up and I don't feel the same about her. I start to back out the the relationship by totally ignoring her....even when she is at the house. She notices and starts to go out. I then talk to her and say that I don't want her around as much and I need some time to work out my emotions. She gets all offended takes all her **** out of my house and leaves. I feel empty and hurt inside. I turn into afc when I should have let her go. Anyways I start to smother her with wuss and she ends up cheating on me. I feel it might have been going on for a while but being the afc I turned back into I took her word that everything is good when I knew it wasn't. I caught her this weekend, I told a mutual friend and they told her. She dosn't call until monday...this happened friday. I didn't anwser at first, she called once, then again, and again, so on and so forth. I finally called her back and I told her that I could never trust her and it is over. She starts bawling, I can't take it and breakdown. I now feel worse. She calls me again today to say she is going to pick up her ****, and acts all depressed. Making me feel bad again. I know she is the type that is going to call me over and over and over again, even though she is already living with this new guy. Since catching her Saturday morning I have been keeping myself busy. But I can't get my mind off of her. She calls me at work, she is comming over tonight to get her ****....I can't handle it...I don't ever want to speak or see her again, but I sit there and listen to my phone ring not anwsering it and it tears me up even more. I have been feeling sick, and depressed, and not wanting to do anything but think about her. It is really bad for me! Luckly I have a great friend that came over to my house and took me out of the house! Help!!! How do I break these destructive relationship habits.
