"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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From a woman: "Why Nice guys suck"

ValleyDJing

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Kev07 said:
i dont think i've driving speed limit since a week after i got my liscence... not even when my parents were with me.
Ditto. I drive like my ass is on fire. I've even done some street racing. lol! Its nothing short of a miracle I haven't been pulled over once. *knock on wood*
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ricky

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WTF Demon is back! Wow long time no see. (Not that I"m a regular here much either)
 

Raikojo17

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Demon said:
Either drive the speed of traffic or don't drive at all. On I-15 in California, 85-90 mph is the normal driving speed in the far left lane. The speed limit is 65 mph. Anyone driving the speed limit (or lower) is at higher risk of causing a traffic accident.
not to get into a driving debate, but i was just saying that it was stupid that she rip on sumthing as stupid as his driving. for all the complaining she does, she must not hate him to much because she's still with him, regardless of his being well off. he's not rich, so she cant be attracted to the money to much.
 

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Lol i actually liked her description at the end xD it seemed like a balanced guy, not really a jerk but manly and that holds his own ground.
 

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The last line says it all:

"BE A MAN FOR GOD'S SAKE... and the women will fall at your feet."

I've been saying this for a while, especially to those who think that canned routines, tactics, techniques and all that other stuff is the way to go.

Well, it isn't, because underneath it all is still an AFC, only now, just an AFC who can recite other people's material.

Be a Man, not a parrot who recites/uses other people's routines.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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