"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

From a "kid" to all the men of SoSuave

No.Danny

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 2, 2014
Messages
523
Reaction score
47
Location
Miami, Florida
Recently I've been saying I'm going to leave this site for a good time but I've come back three days in a row. Now this is my last hurrah of this tenure.
First of all I would like to reflect:
Came here as a 16 year old. Basketball player, always good at getting girls interested but nothing beyond that. Had just gotten the LJBF speech from like a 5 a ****ing 5. Let's just say I was more than AFC I was a bitvh.
Found this site through a popular PUA site but they're kind of sad(talking about the canned lines and all that ****) referred to this site because they didn't offer a teen aspect. Once I saw this. I knew it was the right place!

There are a few members I would like to keep contact on a personal scale like GMMR and JohnChops a few others that I might try and reach out to.

Now I feel like I rub off on a few members the wrong way because of how I feel or things I say but at the age of 17 I've set guidelines or boundaries ;) I will follow through my life.

One thing most who've seen me post notice is the influence pook has had on me. And one thing he preached was every guy should focus on their growth. Which a lot of guys fail to realize.

But it's been a great time, and all I have to say to every member on this site,
NOTHING BUT RESPECT!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

El Suave

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2012
Messages
228
Reaction score
32
Location
US
It is great that you have set guidelines and boundaries for yourself and that in itself is more than guys your age have achieved.

It sounds from the title of your thread that you didn't like how some of the older guys on this site talked to you. To be honest with you, it cracked me up because it reminded me of a saying "When you're young you open your ears, not your mouth". That saying always pissed me off, but it would certainly be true even for me if a guy that is 70 said it to me.I'm sure most guys on here meant well.

You sound wise for your age, and remember your guideline and boundaries will change with age. We have all been there. You have read how most posters say "I used to be alpha and now I'm an AFC". Life changes people and sometimes you lose track of sh*t. Hope you come back and check the forum once in a while.
 

GS750

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 28, 2013
Messages
1,561
Reaction score
187
Well at least in your time here you have learned valuable info. Far ahead of the game as far as most dudes your age. I wish I had found this place when I was still a teen.
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,797
Reaction score
10,027
Dude, if you're upset with me for mentioning that you were 17 in that other thread, I meant no offense by it. Things are different at that age, it has to be. The things you are going through now are different than the things you will go through later. And that's as it should be.
 

No.Danny

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 2, 2014
Messages
523
Reaction score
47
Location
Miami, Florida
zekko said:
Dude, if you're upset with me for mentioning that you were 17 in that other thread, I meant no offense by it. Things are different at that age, it has to be. The things you are going through now are different than the things you will go through later. And that's as it should be.
:crackup: :crackup:
Yeah, you obviously don't personally don't know me. That didn't affect me 1 bit. You believe in you I do me. Want to dismiss my views because I'm "young?" That seems like your problem, not mine.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,797
Reaction score
10,027
No.Danny said:
Want to dismiss my views because I'm "young?" That seems like your problem, not mine.
I dismissed your views because they were wrong.
 
Top