"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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from 3 sex partners to none

King_Supreme

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i just went from 3 sex partners to zero in a matter of 3days. wth. the old me would be mentally crying about this but the new me doesnt even really care. its actually kind of funny. heres the story...we got Miss L, Miss D1 and Miss D2.

i ended it wit Miss L for 2 reasons. 1 because shes married and i dont wanna end up gettin killed and 2 because she was becoming too attached. this was only supposed to be a physical thing but she acts like im her man. too damn clingy.

Miss D1. she had stopped talkin to me for a few days because i took my cousin to the jay z concert instead of her. i went over her house the other day cuz i hadnt hit it in a couple weeks. i get her started then she tells me that we are not about to do anything because her feelings for me are too strong and sex is just gonna make them stronger and since i dont want a relatonship i would just be playing wit her emotions.

Miss D2. she text me today while im in class "whats up i was thinkin bout u". we text a lil bit back and forth then i text "what u doin later", her: "nothin". me: "well how bout comin over and doin me then". she all of a sudden gets morals and says damn near the same thing as D1.

im definitely no don juan yet but what is it im doing thats making these chicks fall for me. i swear i make it clear in the beginning that i dont want a relationship but they seem to think they can change me. i used think i wanted women to fall for me but all this does is mess up the sexual relationship.

not really assking for any advice just venting but if u have some then give it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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King_Supreme said:
i just went from 3 sex partners to zero in a matter of 3days. wth. the old me would be mentally crying about this but the new me doesnt even really care. its actually kind of funny. heres the story...we got Miss L, Miss D1 and Miss D2.

i ended it wit Miss L for 2 reasons. 1 because shes married and i dont wanna end up gettin killed and 2 because she was becoming too attached. this was only supposed to be a physical thing but she acts like im her man. too damn clingy.

Miss D1. she had stopped talkin to me for a few days because i took my cousin to the jay z concert instead of her. i went over her house the other day cuz i hadnt hit it in a couple weeks. i get her started then she tells me that we are not about to do anything because her feelings for me are too strong and sex is just gonna make them stronger and since i dont want a relatonship i would just be playing wit her emotions.

Miss D2. she text me today while im in class "whats up i was thinkin bout u". we text a lil bit back and forth then i text "what u doin later", her: "nothin". me: "well how bout comin over and doin me then". she all of a sudden gets morals and says damn near the same thing as D1.

im definitely no don juan yet but what is it im doing thats making these chicks fall for me. i swear i make it clear in the beginning that i dont want a relationship but they seem to think they can change me. i used think i wanted women to fall for me but all this does is mess up the sexual relationship.

not really assking for any advice just venting but if u have some then give it.
when was the jay z concert?
 

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"On To the next...I got a million ways to get'em, choose one!"--Hov

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You know what it is

peace
 

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Solomon said:
"On To the next...I got a million ways to get'em, choose one!"--Hov
lol. exactly. i said that was my new motto. if a chick aint interested then "on 2 the next one"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just next them. They just want your balls in a lockbox. Don't give them that opportunity. Interesting situation you described here. They will come back to the d.ick anyhow if you f.ucked them the right way. Best of luck.
 

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King_Supreme said:
i just went from 3 sex partners to zero in a matter of 3days. wth. the old me would be mentally crying about this but the new me doesnt even really care. ...

what is it im doing thats making these chicks fall for me. i swear i make it clear in the beginning that i dont want a relationship but they seem to think they can change me.
I think that you answered your own question. Women want what they can't have. You say no relationship, and women fall for you and want a relationship, even the married one.

I'm going to guess it took a while to get the first sex partner and then became easier to find #2, and then eaiser to find #3. That is because you were displaying confidence, and an "I don't care if I lose this one" attitude because you always had one or two more. The fact that you are ok about losing 3 women instead of mentally crying solidifies this point.

If you continue with this swagger, you will get back to where you were sooner than later.
 

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I have been through that many many times.. the thing is .. no matter how great thing seem to be they always go bad eventually and suddenly so you have to keep getting new prospects all the time cause that is what women do every day..
 

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It's cop and blow in the game. That's what supreme teaches and you just experienced. You cop a bytch, and eventually when they don't get what they want, they either blow out, or stick around for the good d until they find someone else. Charge it to the game.
 
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