"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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....from 2nd to home..?

Sublimeee

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So i've been dating this girl now for almost a month. We never fight or anything it's almost too perfect. I can't really complain at all....

Everytime we try to go to the movies... out or anywhere.. .we end up making out.... blowing off everything else... then she comes over and we never get further than fingering/handjob kinda deal. WHen she's on top of me she'll like grind me n stuff but it's nothing to big. Tons of sexual tension between us though, is what I'm getting at.

I'm so near posotive she's ready for sex but idk how to go about bringing it up or anything really.... ya I'm a virgin... and from what I understand I think she is to.

I don't want to scare her or anything... I'm like 75% sure she'd be all for it



My question really is... how.... without being awkward or anythin..


haha i was thinking of just like having a condum in my back pocket cuz she likes to put her hands in my back pockets or something... idk..... help me out
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bump, only cuz there's definately gunna be some alone time this weekend
 

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Put the condom in your back pocket, and if she questions it, just tell her, Just in case we decide to. It shows respect, and some what moral values. Who knows just a move like that... could get you all the way. Worked for me a few times. Only thing is if she says no it's no.

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