Friendzoned - she is now dating someone, was my reaction correct?

[lexa]

Please tell me how I did?

This is an attractive girl who like to go on trips with me, posted photo of us together on her fb wall etc, but yeah, I know I was in the friendzone. But I do actually enjoy hanging out with her and the posting of our pictures do seem to provide me with some bragging rights. anyway...

Last night before we went to the cinema, while getting something to eat, I mentioned how I had a little fling with my co-worker (we kissed) but me and the coworker have agreed it was a mistake.

She then told me how she had to LJBF another guy - who is a bit like me, go on trips with her etc excepted unfortunately for the guy his feelings came out the worst way possible, a mutual friend of their's texted her to ask if they are an item, she said no, the mutual friend shown him the text, he then got upset, pour his feelings out, but somehow agreed to suppress his feelings so they can continue to be friends. (and this is a pretty good looking successful guy, I thought he would have a bit more game.)

After that, we had a little discussion about it, and suddenly she dropped the bomb - she told me she is dating someone (someone who work with a famous pop star) and how they had a couple dates and he is away for a month on a tour etc.

I thought about sosave and managed to keep calm and asked what does he think of us spending a weekend at a country house together in a few wks time. "Why do you asked that?" she asked. "some guys gets jealous" to which I replied. She then said "he is not like that, and we have been friends for a long time, going away with you is no different then going away with a girl". Wow - I thought and I protest a little with a smile. Is quite funny to see her tried to dig out of the hole. - So I let her off.

She then spend most of the trailer time txting the guy, tad annoyed but hey, I just wanna watch the movie. Nothing I can do except to asked her to turn off the phone when the movie starts.

I got my own back tho, as always, she posted a status on her wall about us being in the cinema. A HB10 female friend (i texted her what happened) posted a comment saying me and her should go to the cinema, it was fun last time (with a wink). As expected, this girl got jealous, checking out HB10 profile pic, asking if she had work done etc (LOL). I played to it a little by talking about how amazing HB10 is and how good dating her was, apart from that, i was quite dismissive both with the got home text and today.


Basically It was the best idea to have hot friends!

 

[SgtSplacker]

If you want to control women, you must be able to control jealousy.

If you can keep a woman jealous the world is your oyster.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Sounds like a f*ck buddy I use to have, she had tons of orbiters that would take her to concerts and try to get into her pants by being super nice.

I hope to hell you are not wasting your time & cash money on this broad. Find a chick you can smash at this country get away, you caaare way to much about FakeBook & social status just stop acting like a chick already.

 

[lexa]

If you want to control women, you must be able to control jealousy.

If you can keep a woman jealous the world is your oyster.

Yeah is quite lucky I have a lot of young attractive female friends (infact that's all I have) but not many possible plates or natural male friends .

Wondering if is possible to turn her into fwb? Like when the bf is away on tour lol. Cos naturally we will drift apart away if they are serious anyway..

 

[Robert28]

If you have as many hot broads for friends as you say you do then why in the blue he!! are you not gaming every single one of them instead of putting all your effort into this one girl?

 

[lexa]

If you have as many hot broads for friends as you say you do then why in the blue he!! are you not gaming every single one of them instead of putting all your effort into this one girl?

Because I work with most of them so off limits and they are 10 years younger, being in the 30s and single is tough...

 

[mangotot]

You just need to escalate and get the $ex thing out if the way so its not just LJBF.

 

[Robert28]

Because I work with most of them so off limits and they are 10 years younger, being in the 30s and single is tough...

So you're in your 30's and they are 10 years younger, meaning they are in their 20's. I don't see the problem other then you said most work with you. Obviously don't game those but game the others. Do you know how many 20 something year old girls I see and know that fall all over guys in their 30's? Tons! He!! I'm seeing young wh0res dating 40 and 50 year old guys, as long as they have money though. I'm 32 and for me it's harder to get women my age then it is younger women. I'm guessing it's because women my age look at me and wonder why I've never been married or don't have any kids and they see it as a red flag, which is fine. I don't feel like going to the park to watch our kids play while we sit on a park bench and talk about bills, ex's and school as a "fun date". I've been accused of "not growing up" but the one's that tell me that are also in $hitty marriages or are paying child support through the nose and dealing with a nutcase ex-wife.