"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friendzone, taken, oneitis girl .

TheGambino

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Im ready for her.

I was in the friendzone for years. Had 100 chances to escalate with this girl but fvcked up big. She was in my bed once and I was too much of a pvssy to do something. Didn't see her for ages, she was interested in me for sure but I was the biggest AFC you can imagine. Once we danced touched her ass and all but that's the farest I ever came.

My plan now is too call her up soon and arrange a meet up, going to escalate immediatley she won't know what's happening to her.

Got some plates in the rotation, fvckbuddy also but I'm 100% ready to play my game on this broad. One thing she has a bf.

You guys think I should go for it or anywayz?

I just want to fvck her I know shes a beast in bed, I just see that quickly, her eyes are a flame, I feel like she will give me the best bj possible in a wide range of 1000+ miles lol. She's fire.

btw i got no feelings or attached or anything I just want to fvck her brains out and I'm ready, I'm a pro in escalating know, 4 years ago I was the biggest AFC. that's the difference
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She has a BF.....
 

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TheGambino said:
Im ready for her....My plan now is too...escalate immediatley she won't know what's happening to her...I just want to fvck her I know...she will give me the best bj possible...I just want to fvck her brains out and I'm ready,
Im sorry man but i heard a bad voice in my head and this is all i got in my first read.

Dude she has a bf i say dont fly there man. She is not coming to you and proposing anything so its gonna be tough.

Get her liquor and she'll spread 'em quicker. Thats about all i got.
 

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All due respect, don't do it.
Oneitis is a monster. Stay no contact forever. No good can come of this, and there's plenty of other broads.

Reread your post...you're putting her on a pedestal. You have no clue what she's really like in bed.
 

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Yeah man i have to say i entirely agree with what Albatross953 is saying. It would be much more easier to just go and meet new women then try and rebuild yourself in her eyes.

She was interested in me for sure.

But that was ages ago according to you. People change. You've changed. And how in the world do you know so much about this girl but you guys havent kept in touch???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gonna say this, because hey I have the same feeling, from a old oneitis I had, simple put I just want to do what you jsut said take her ****e her good and never look back, but is just you ego talking, you say you have no attachment, but the simple fact of wanting to still **** her means you are attached to her in your mind, deep down you just want her to be remembering you ****ing her, and then going after you.

best you can do is what I did I belive, delete all info, forget about her and move on, you will spend time on a girl who don't deserve, don't matter how much you screw before, just forget it
 

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We kept in touch man Thundernutz(lmao that nickname), she went to the gym with me for a month or so a year ago. She even isolated me in the lockerroom and flirting brah(ye she was with the guy back then), I could've made a move in there. I was just too much of a pvssy back then, unbelievable.. now I would escalate be4 she can say my name

Due that time I had a girl I was busy with and she knew about it I told her about the girl and stuff. After a couple of weeks she said she wanted to quit going to the gym coz she was busy and all that and saying stuff like I'm quitting, and not sure if I want to go anymore and I acted like I didn't care in stead of motivating her to come. I was very indifferent towards her and replying very late and short on her text messages due that time until our contact faded and she didn't text me at all for 8months after that.

Now 7-8 months later I texted her once a month ago to ask something random she replied instantly asking me all kind of stuff, told her I'm going to get drinks tonight in a partic city we both go out to. She said Ill hit you up if I have time to join you but she didn't.

Now im thinking of texting her to get drinks soon. then have a good time and escalate cov Ive been true some changes this years.
 

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Oh...well next time add more detail bro im going off of what your putting down.

I dunno man, definately spin other plates but I still have to say that you are putting her on a pedestal. Imagine how disapointed when you discover that she is really maryjane wrottencrotch.

Seems to me that you txt her and she goes along with it but doesnt follow through, and aside from raping her i dont think your ever gonna get anything more than teased. Some women just love to flirt, some women just love to cheat. Maybe she is the latter she just isn't using you as her go-to-guy.

Better to start fresh imo. This girl does not qualify as a plate because you have a history with her. Go and meet and fvck new women.
 

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Too much time has passed imo and she isn't showing any real signs of wanting to get with you. get some new prospects and leave this one alone until she gets serious about wanting to get together. then make your move if you so choose. i would just forget her imo.
 

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She has a boyfriend. Don't be that guy. How would you feel if someone as in the know as you started workin' on a girl you were dating? Just because there is very little honor left out there doesn't mean you should ditch yours too. Everyone else has said it but just forget her. You're on an ego trip.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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IndeedSir said:
She has a boyfriend. Don't be that guy. How would you feel if someone as in the know as you started workin' on a girl you were dating? Just because there is very little honor left out there doesn't mean you should ditch yours too. Everyone else has said it but just forget her. You're on an ego trip.
This. Spot on.
 

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IndeedSir said:
She has a boyfriend. Don't be that guy. How would you feel if someone as in the know as you started workin' on a girl you were dating? Just because there is very little honor left out there doesn't mean you should ditch yours too. Everyone else has said it but just forget her. You're on an ego trip.

↑↑↑↑↑↑↑↑Exactly. Next or forever be chained to this fantasy.
 
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