Friendzone her first

[Uncharted]

I tried out something from an old post I saw. Met a chick at happy hour last night.

After talking for a while.

Me: so you seem like a cool chick. Always looking to meet new friends. Give me your number.
HB: So you just want to hang out as friends?
Me: I'm always looking for new friends, unless the right girl comes along then maybe more.

She gave me her number. I was just curious to try something different. Got the # not sure how it will turn out but I'm spinning four plates and could care less if this one works out, hence the experiment.

Thoughts?

 

[Neon Owl]

I thought about trying this before but had no plates to fall back on.

Let us know how it goes.

Oh and props for living up to your name

 

[NewAndImproved]

Worked in the past for me. I sometimes say something like "at the very least you and me can be good friends."

 

[Uncharted]

She was like a HB8. Hottest chick at the happy hour but wasn't saying much because everyone else there was gross. I was always curious if this worked. If you google "he friendzoned me" you see a bunch of chicks with their hamster running complaining on message boards. Just figured worth a try. If it doesn't work, no real loss.

There are a few threads on here where they have said it worked. I'm also working on another plate in my social group that I've been "friends" with for a few years but she's always had a boyfriend. Just never made a move on her. Curious to see how that works too.

 

[TheException]

HB: So you just want to hang out as friends?
Me: I'm always looking for new friends, unless the right girl comes along then maybe more.

The key is to escalate while having that "friend" frame in place. The paradox will make her hamster go nuts. This way it will play out as "welllll it just sorta happened" and gives her that fairytale like story. Just dont plan on seriously making her a friend then try to escalate. Im sure you already knew this though....if a girl desexualizes you its game over.

 

[Korrupt]

It's funny, because chicks get fvcking PISSED when you friendzone them. They're not used to it and they feel rejected. "Omg is he not attracted to me? Omg he DOESN'T want to fvck me?" I need to start doing this more when I get resistance, because I tend to come on waaaay too strong and blow myself out.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I enthusiastically endorse the technique, as it's field-tested in my life. I've used this to great effect from time to time.

 

[plate's_empty]

I totally forgot about this technique! I think I first heard it a while back reading something from David D.

But yeah, it works great. I used to use it all the time. Chicks go crazy, it totally re-frames it. Afterwards they're telling their friends. "yeah, and then I got him to have sex with me!!" lol

What a few failed LTR's will do to you. Thanks for the thread OP, I gotta get my game going again.

 

[expos]

What's the lyric from that song "Sign Your Name" from Terence Trent D'Arby?

We started out as friends
But the thought of you just caves me in

I'm going to try this out sometime.