So this is a friends with benefits situation now. Which means it has a limited life. Use her for lots of kinky nasty sex and then when she inevitably moves on who cares you had the profit. Don't catch feelings she had her chance. If you weren't good enough then she's not good enough now.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Friendzone can be a sign of respect
- Thread starter Pandora
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Oh yeh for sure. After we had sex she started getting all mushy and cuddly. I quickly threw her off, put on my clothes and skipped out of there. I made a joke to her about how we agreed not to catch feelings and then put on my shoes, kissed her on the forehead and left. Once they make you wait that long they disqualify themselves for anything more.
nismo-4
Moderator
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2005
- Messages
- 4,439
- Reaction score
- 1,143
If you're not first, you're last.
She just kept you as backup. Otherwise, you were an orbiter.
All friendzones are created equal. You're not attractive and not showing your sexual desires. Hence why your ass is in there to begin with.
The only compliment is you know she's not interested in you, so delete her from all platforms. If she was a tease, block her if you need to.
All this good guy crap is just relationship material, and comes AFTER sex, not before. Sometimes, you have to tell girls you don't committ to them until sex happens. If they het pissed, delete and move on.
Men and women can't be just friends. Women disagree because they're getting attention. Do any of you motherf**kin' guys on here masturbate when a female gives you attention but not sex? Didn't think so.
She just kept you as backup. Otherwise, you were an orbiter.
All friendzones are created equal. You're not attractive and not showing your sexual desires. Hence why your ass is in there to begin with.
The only compliment is you know she's not interested in you, so delete her from all platforms. If she was a tease, block her if you need to.
All this good guy crap is just relationship material, and comes AFTER sex, not before. Sometimes, you have to tell girls you don't committ to them until sex happens. If they het pissed, delete and move on.
Men and women can't be just friends. Women disagree because they're getting attention. Do any of you motherf**kin' guys on here masturbate when a female gives you attention but not sex? Didn't think so.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
If she let you smash it after being in the FZ, one of two things has happened:
- You've raised your value/attraction high enough in her chick mind (probably combined with her not having other higher options)
- She's depressed and just wants somebody, anybody
It's none of that other BS you talked about. This is a simple deal, it ain't complicated.
- You've raised your value/attraction high enough in her chick mind (probably combined with her not having other higher options)
- She's depressed and just wants somebody, anybody
It's none of that other BS you talked about. This is a simple deal, it ain't complicated.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Glassguy
Moderator
- Joined
- Apr 25, 2016
- Messages
- 4,789
- Reaction score
- 8,861
- Age
- 49
IMO the OP is in a perfect position.
You got out of the friend zone and fvcked her. In order to make this a conistent thing, you just have to start ignoring her and give her little attention unless you want to schedule a hookup. Trust me when I say she will wonder WHY you are not interested in a relationship after you obviously were before the smashing.
The rules of the game suddenly change once you stick your d!ck in them. You can string this along and name your own price if you play your cards right.
You got out of the friend zone and fvcked her. In order to make this a conistent thing, you just have to start ignoring her and give her little attention unless you want to schedule a hookup. Trust me when I say she will wonder WHY you are not interested in a relationship after you obviously were before the smashing.
The rules of the game suddenly change once you stick your d!ck in them. You can string this along and name your own price if you play your cards right.
yeh this is def true lol....i prob read too much into it.