"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Roly

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Hey guys, I've been out for a while and kinda need some words of wisdom. Ya see now that I've been DJing and been getting kind of smarter, I'm getting turned off by my friends. ( And no we're not having sex or anything like that. :p ) It's cause my new lifestyle and theirs totally don't clique, they drink, they smoke and do all that heavy stuff and their asses are all brainwashed by AFC and jerk off philosophies. Dunno, But I'm probably going to drift away from my old crew and find some dudes who are more laidback, don't really give a damn if I hurt their feelings, gotta break my habit of being a freaking people pleaser, don't really care if I'm going to be a loner for a while, Independence rocks nyways. What do you guys think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good for you dude!! Rock on!! :up:

I've recently come to the same kind of conclusion.
Life's too short to waste worrying about what other people think.
 

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i feel ya...sometimes it seems like the people you regularly hang with aren't on the same level...not like a higher or lower level but just that you've gone 2 separate directions and you want to do one thing while they're doing something along the lines of the opposite direction. i'm almost 23...that's happened many times since HS. that's just the way life goes i believe.
 
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