need a reality check on this as a viable strategy...
Essentially as I network for work and side projects it's straightforward for ME to immediately "friend zone" other women. Not them me. The point isn't to see them as plates but as introducers to plates. Is this a viable strategy? The flaw I see is -- seeing these women as potential connectivity sources thereby polluting time i can spend in direct approaches or elsewhere. Also the risk of being an emotional tampon which I will not accept nor have time for.
My outlook for this is around building a constant supply of plates from other women via a social introduction. This does presume I am introduction worthy-- but the goal is to become as such.
cheers
Essentially as I network for work and side projects it's straightforward for ME to immediately "friend zone" other women. Not them me. The point isn't to see them as plates but as introducers to plates. Is this a viable strategy? The flaw I see is -- seeing these women as potential connectivity sources thereby polluting time i can spend in direct approaches or elsewhere. Also the risk of being an emotional tampon which I will not accept nor have time for.
My outlook for this is around building a constant supply of plates from other women via a social introduction. This does presume I am introduction worthy-- but the goal is to become as such.
cheers
