"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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need a reality check on this as a viable strategy...

Essentially as I network for work and side projects it's straightforward for ME to immediately "friend zone" other women. Not them me. The point isn't to see them as plates but as introducers to plates. Is this a viable strategy? The flaw I see is -- seeing these women as potential connectivity sources thereby polluting time i can spend in direct approaches or elsewhere. Also the risk of being an emotional tampon which I will not accept nor have time for.

My outlook for this is around building a constant supply of plates from other women via a social introduction. This does presume I am introduction worthy-- but the goal is to become as such.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Reasonable.

Just hold firm to the premise that women r just a side job.

And ur main job is always urself; business, careers, ambitions, hobbies etc.
 
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