"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Friends zone... is it all that bad?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

TillTheEndOfTime

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
1,930
Reaction score
59
Fuglydude said:
What's up w/ girls that wanna be your friend, still wanna be naughty with you, but do not wanna commit more seriously to you...would that be a FZ kinda situation as well?
No that's entirely different. That is called a fuvk buddy relationship.
 

christz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2004
Messages
740
Reaction score
0
slapping the ass of a girl that put you in the friendzone is a quick way to lose a friend. Because she's told you time after time she doesn't see you like that and if she hasen't told you that, any sexual advances she either gets upset or will come up with stupid excuses as to why she can't do so and so.

slapping the ass of a FRIEND, will make her laugh and get all flirty.. thus creating a sexual tension. As that builds it will draw the two involved closer into an inevitable Relationship if you play your cards right. YOU were never placed in the friendszone you were only friends with the girl which is normally where you wanna be anyways unless your just looking for a fling or a ONS

However don't confuse a FB relationship for something real, because that's about as bad as friendszone espeiclly when you want more than tang,
 
Top