friends without trust

[kevbo]

everyone should know that one of the most vital traits in a friend is trustworthiness. it should also be common knowledge that to be trustworthy, a friend would have to trust you. what do you do, then, when you find that almost none of your friends are willing to trust that you know what you're doing with your life?

Example:
wednsday of last week, i broke up with a girl i'd been dating for a few months. after that, all but 3 people hit me with a barrage of questions and criticisms. "dude, you're such a dumb***!" "you're a ****weed!"
needless to say, i became quite angry at all these people who wouldn't let my decision go. today, someone i thought was a good friend actually attacked me because i was being a jerk. NO KIDDING! OF COURSE I SEEMED LIKE A JERK NOW! i'm not about ready to give the same kind welcome to everyone who's been giving me **** about the situation.

The good side: I now know who my truest buds are.

The bad side: I know not what to do about everyone else. despite recent events, i can't help but consider them as fairly good friends. this is what stopped me from fighting back when i was attacked. (besides, he did a horrible job, aside from the rug burn on my left leg)
i did vent after that, but he didn't seem to pay attention.

i'm sure that plenty of people out there have faced at least somewhat similar problems, and i'd greatly appreciate any suggestions.

 

[Boono11]

Kevbo. This guy is just being a ****. He probably just has some issues about it that's all. Just stay tough and go with what you want and don't take S H I T from anyone about this. That's about all i can say. Be tough and hang in there. Good thing you still have some buds you can trust.

Why do hot dogs come in packages of 8 and hot dog buns come in packages of 6? Only when you answer this qestion will you know.

 

[CaptianMorgan]

how bout when she said no u say "why not" cuz then u put her on the spot and all and then yea its crazy

 

[CaptianMorgan]

o crap wrong thread

 

[CaptianMorgan]

well my advice for this thread is well i dunno im not good at giving advice yet. But i do have some friends like that who will call me names and bull**** like that. I just stoped hangin out with them for awhile when they piss me off alot. I notice they will call my house like 8 times a day wanting to do something but i never pick up and when ur ready to hang out with them again they got the respect for you when u first started hangin out with them and they will treat ya better cuz they see how crappy there lives are when they dont have a friend to hang out with and they think ur cooler cuz u show u have a life outside of them. And it will make them feel even stupider then before when u call them gay or something like that. I dont know if this has anything to do with what ur talkin about but it worked for me man and i won back some trust in my friends along with some respect. but maybe r situations r different so yea its crazy.

 

[DJ Girevik]

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