"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Friends with her brother, will this help or hurt?

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dnscache

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So here's the deal, I think I'm in a great situation right now and I don't wanna fvck this up. Just got dumped by my oneitis but came out strong and keeping her distant even though I have to see her about twice a week. Props to everyone who helped me out with that btw.

So I'm feeling pretty good and confident despite that. Anyway, There's a chick I've had my eye on (bout HB8.5 to 9) but she's got a boyfriend. I've known her for about a year but nothing's happened because I've had girlfriends almost back to back that whole time. I'm not like great friends with her, I've always kept her somewhat distant cause she's hot and I knew becoming "BFF" with her would greatly hinder any future chance. I'm pretty good friends with her brother however, he doesn't really like her bf so I'm thinking somehow I could leverage this to my advantage. So, what do you got for me? This seems somewhat unique I think.

-dns
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

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I'm pretty good friends with her brother

The brother is more helpful to you if he is older than her. Women try to date up in status. Older brother's friend is up; kid brother's friend is down.
 
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djweses89

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very good point bible_belt(haha wat does your name mean by the way)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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