Friends with benefits

[PeterCrouch]

I thought i had best get this down before i forget it!

Couple of new things im gonna test out, while out with a gal, ill mention to her that i dont date just hook up with gals (with a smile of course) and call it "Friends with benefits" and if they argue ill just say (with a smile) that weve both had sex this year but i dont have to deal with the problems it could cause!

hopefully at this point they smile! when the evening comes to an end, ill say "so i guess tonite makes us friends" and then with a smile and hint of suggestiveness ill say "friends with benefits?" maybe go for the kiss here or just smile and end the night there leaving the desicion in there hands

another thing ive been thinking, when ya first meet a gal you could mention something like "so we can be friends, with benefits!" and if they dont understand just say "well think about it, and when you have, heres my number give me a call"

not so sure about the second but the 1st one sounds good dont ya think?




btw yes i did steal the idea from one tree hill! lol

 

[Big Eee Zee]

nope. You'll get shot down. Girls need more rapport building than 1 night. Otherwise they think they'll be slvtty. And that is no good. They become friends with benefits only if you are really going to be a friend to them, or someone they like hanging with. Now if your just looking for something physical, that may work. But fwb is more than that, at that point you just call and say I'm horney and she comes over.

 

[Tboner]

You've got an idea that works, but you need to change your approach. I run 3 to 6 "friends with benefits" at any given time. It helps my game because when I approach a HB9, I really don't care what happens.

Don't come out and ask her for it or state it directly. Just run a tight game to seduce her and tell her you're not looking for anything exclusive and that you do date other women. Don't tell her you're banging other women, unless she asks. Always be honest, but down play it like it's just a normal thing for you.

My experience with women that show an intial interest is that about 50% will reject you because of this and 50% will become much more interested in bedding you. It's actually a good screening process because the ones that reject you are usually self-absorbed, control freaks who expect you to be exclusive with them from the first date.

With the ones that remain interested, they are accepting your rules to be with you. You do need to bed them quickly or ignore them until they're ready. You give them the "benefits" first, then you can become friends.

You'll find that there are many women who want this type of relationship because they're too busy, don't want a clingy guy around or have a high sex drive and don't want one night stands.