"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I am interested in having sex with this one girl and she told me she isn't really ready for a relationship right now because of a breakup a few months ago. That being said, should I be upfront and honest with her and tell her I want to have sex with her and be friends with benefits with her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That type of thing tends to happen on its own. It's not like two people sit down and form a contract about it. I don't think discussing it is going to make her horny for you.

Did she tell you that thing about "not wanting a relationship" after you asked her out? Because that's probably just her way of saying she doesn't like you.
 
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I never really asked her out. I just asked her about her prior relationship.
 
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Dont ever explicitly tell a girl you want sex. Just let it happen. And dont ever pay attention when girls say they aren't ready for a relationship. They usually end up in one, three days after they shoot you down. just play it off like you are cool with whatever, and act completely non-needy. Tell her (lie) a story about a FWB you once had, and how you are still good friends to this day.
 
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