friends with benefits...how do you treat them

[NoMore]

If you are in a club, and you are hanging out with your "friends with benefits" how do you treat them? Obviously you are friends but should you buy her drinks? Should you ask her to buy you drinks? I really don't care that much, but I dont want to become too AFC with her.

 

[princelydeeds]

Totally depends on the situation and totally depends on the chick. I have had friends with benefits, that I couldnt have cared less about. There are also the friends, who are just friends and nothing more. If its one of those then I dont really care what they do.

I have also had friends with benefits that I like alot, maybe not enough to be in a committed relationship, but I like screwing them, hanging out and I genuinely like her as a person. I will tend to buy her a drink or two, especially if shes totally into me and I know she thinks of me as someone she wants to be in a relationship with.

 

[NoMore]

yeah, thanks. There is no relationship gonna happen with this girl, I make sure that is clear. I guess buying some shots would be okay...shots are almost neutral i think. Fawk it, I don't care that much about her, just barely enough to post the question on here!

 

[Walden]

Fawk it, I don't care that much about her, just barely enough to post the question on here!

Dude that's kinda cold.

If we're talking playbuddies here then you should treat them really well, a good playbuddy is a relationship that has a real friendship elelment in it and will probably outlast most of your relationships.

I've been hanging out with one playbuddy for six years now , another for about three , and the other one (we don't 'play' anymore cos she got married) is now my best friend.

Seriously buy her some damn drinks.

 

[NoMore]

Granted, very cold sounding. The difficult thing for me is to articulate feelings on a website. So, to clarify, I meant that I really don't care that much about being FWB with her. I would be fine just being friends with her because that is how we started out, all cool. I don't have alot of experience with FWB, so I am really just trying to maintain it instead of screw it up like I did the last one.

 

[Eternal]

If you don't want to be FWB's with her, why go along with it?

 

[princelydeeds]

Why do you have to be sorry for not caring about her? If you dont care you dont care, at least your being honest. If I didnt care I wouldnt buy her anything, and would certainly apologize for that.