"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Friends/wingmen in LTR's and winning the game--what do YOU think?

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A few of my good friends and best wingmen are now in LTR's and I am currently beginning to see a girl (non-exclusively). These guys and I have had awesome times. They both got with high-quality, loyal women who admire their pick-up skills, and I am also on my way. I'm happy for them but I'm going to miss our adventures and cold approaches. What do you all consider winning the game?
Has anyone else been in this--or a similar--situation? There's got to be something else down the road.

-R
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A lot of my friends are coupling up but its mostly the beta type guys who were never really that into "the game" to begin with. They were always looking for serious girlfriends.

My best wingmen are still single and showing no signs of slowing down (just like me).

For me "winning the game" means becoming the best I can be. Realizing my true potential and reaching it. I just want to keep getting better with age in all areas of life. Smarter, richer, more educated, more confident, sexier, etc. I guess my ultimate goals is to become a "catch" but not for the purposes of marriage.. just for the purposes of banging the hottest women.

I have no interest in "settling down". I'm not really a family guy and even having a serious girlfriend is too slavish and confining for me.
 

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I always wanted to go out to LA and to show you how it's done Robyn. But I been in a relationship for the past 5 months exclusively. I say my mind is focused on my career now and not going and and banging multiple girls. I have a GF who is loyal and will do anything for me and I still think she is fine as hell. I don't even look at other girls like I used to so I know this is going somewhere.

I think I'm winning for sure. Winning is subjective though. If your happy, your winning. And I am pretty happy right now. So I say I'm winning.
 
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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I always wanted to go out to LA and to show you how it's done Robyn. But I been in a relationship for the past 5 months exclusively. I say my mind is focused on my career now and not going and and banging multiple girls. I have a GF who is loyal and will do anything for me and I still think she is fine as hell. I don't even look at other girls like I used to so I know this is going somewhere.

I think I'm winning for sure. Winning is subjective though. If your happy, your winning. And I am pretty happy right now. So I say I'm winning.
I was in the same boat as you years ago and enjoy while it lasts. Always keep in the back of your mind that if it were to end suddenly, know you can move on.
 

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I miss you too Robyn! Austin says he misses you too, so does his cat, Shade. And btw, I did win the game. ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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