"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Friends who game women you have interest in

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A Don Juan doesn't have to compete with anyone for woman, they will come to him naturally. He is too busy with his goals in life, making new friends, improving himself... like the saying, "he who win himself, wins a million armies."

You've got to take your game to the next level.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wodan

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T|CK said:
If you have interest in a woman and your friend knows that, is it disrespectful for him to go after her even after you've already conveyed interest?

I had this flirtation thing going with this woman, and my friend met her and decided to go after her after I had already told him I was interested in her.

I'm the type of guy that takes it slow. That's pretty much how I roll, and it works very well for me. He jumped in behind my back and asked her to go on a trip to see a concert. She went with him and when I found, I was pissed.

Personally, I see it as a test of character, and he only did me a favor by showing his true colors. I confronted him about it, and he said that she was fair game. While this is true, it is not true among friends. She is fair game for everyone, but real friends. The way I see it friends don't do that sh!t.
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I agree with you and happened to me a fair bit when i was younger, Speed up your game though good looking ones often arent single for long.
 
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When me or one of my bros expresses interest in a chick, dibs is essentially being called. I don't go after the chicks they're digging on and they don't go after mine. Like has already been mentioned, it's a respect thing, and my friendship with my bros is far more important than some random floozy.

There's way too many girls out there to go after the same one, it just ain't worth it.
 
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As for bros before hoes, the funniest take on it ever.....

Riley: Homies Over Hoes? You know, like, you supposed to put your homie over a ho. That's how pimps do, right?



A Pimp Named Slickback: I don't think Homies Over Hoes is a sentiment that A Pimp Named Slickback can cosign, Riley. I mean don't get me wrong. A Pimp Named Slickback would put a lot of things over a ho. Money over a ho? Always. Brand new gators over a ho? Absolutely. A turkey sandwich with just tomato? Guaranteed. But homies? Oh no. A Pimp Named Slickback don't do shyt for the homies. Let me reiterate. Don't do shyt for the homies. Unless the homie wanna walk that stroll and get that money, a homie ain't gettin' a goddamn thing. And the same goes for brothers, peeps, dudes, fellas, dunnies, comrades, whatever the fock niggas is callin' each other nowadays. Sound like some gay shyt to me.
 
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im for the notion bro's before hoes,,sum guys are total deuche bags and act like hyennas, the moment you start gaming a chick they try to displace you and move in for the kill.its almost as if they have no real game of their own......a good wingman backs of when his friend starts gaming a chick
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I got an answer....

T|CK said:
If you have interest in a woman and your friend knows that, is it disrespectful for him to go after her even after you've already conveyed interest?

I had this flirtation thing going with this woman, and my friend met her and decided to go after her after I had already told him I was interested in her.

I'm the type of guy that takes it slow. That's pretty much how I roll, and it works very well for me. He jumped in behind my back and asked her to go on a trip to see a concert. She went with him and when I found, I was pissed.

Personally, I see it as a test of character, and he only did me a favor by showing his true colors. I confronted him about it, and he said that she was fair game. While this is true, it is not true among friends. She is fair game for everyone, but real friends. The way I see it friends don't do that sh!t.
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AFC!!! AFC!!! AFC!!! AFC!!! AFC!!! AFC!!! you lose!!!!!!!:up:
 
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You're frustrated because he scooped the prey; that's understandable. You're mad at him because you felt that he stabbed you in the back, which he did. But he isn't completely at fault here.

If two friends are hunting and one shoots an arrow at a deer and misses, is the other friend not allowed a shot? If the first hunter doesn't have the skill to get the deer, should they just let it go free? At what point does the game become 'yours'?

Your friend is in the wrong for not telling you about talking to the girl, but he isn't wrong for taking his shot. Did he actively c0ckblock you? Was she your GF? There is a big difference in two people hunting one deer, and someone stealing a deer that is already captured.


You also imply that you take your faith very seriously. Did you honestly believe that this chick would appreciate that? If she were cut from that same moral fiber as yourself, would she talk to your friend like that?
 
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yeah man bros before hoes!


I had this HB9 who was totally into me at a party but a really good mate of mine was trying to work her all night.

and in the end he failed!

I was kinda mad at him because I could have had that but I thought he wanted it pretty bad so I let him have it.

But yeah the guy is a good friend, he's the kind of person who will always stand by his friends and help them when they're in need. Sure he can be a douche bag sometimes but no hoe is worth losing a friend for. Hoes come and go, but friends will always be there.

but hey now I thought about it...he kinda c0ckblocked me a few times that night :box: grrrr
 
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