Alex DeLarge
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Any of you guys ever have this problem? I have 2 friends who are very needy emotionally, and just for common day to day stuff any normal person can take care of on their own. One is a guy and one is a girl.
The other night, the girl flipped out on me because I told her I had a long day at work and was going to go to bed. Then she's yelling at me "What the FVCK! I got a flat tire on my way to see you (and the rest of our friends) and this is how you treat me!?" I told her it's not my fault that she got a flat tire, that she's just having a bad day, and to call me tomorrow. She continued to freak out at me texting me 20 times in a row about how much of an assh0le I am and how I walk all over her.. Haven't talked to her for a week now.
About 2 weeks before this, my car broke down too and I called her to see if she could let me put some important stuff in her car to bring to my house, no answer to the call, and no text back.
I have another friend too.. A typical "nice guy" who just does what everyone tells him to. He always leaves his stuff over my house (jacket, ipod, CDs) just normal sh1t like that. No big deal really. He calls me up and asks me if I can give him back his iPod and I say "Yeah sure, I'm just really busy this week.. But if you want to walk to my house and grab it my roomate will be home during these hours" He says "OK" So I figure he grabs his stuff.
2 weeks later I get texts and calls from him about his ipod and I'm like "Oh I thought you grabbed it all ready" and he says "No I don't feel like walking to your place just come to my place and drop it off".... Now, I live maybe a 20-30 minute walk away from this guy. He doesn't have a car and he's unemployed. He doesn't feel like walking to grab his posession when he has ALL DAY to do it and it's fairly nice weather out. Whereas I work 6 (sometimes 7) days a week, and on my day off I have a hell of a lot of other stuff to do that I put off all week due to work.
I know I could easily just drive to this guys house and drop his thing off, but he needs to learn that everyone can't cater to his every need. He freaks out and posts some phony facebook thing about our town being full of "selfish assh0les" and describes me in that context, says I was cooler a few years ago blah blah. I told him to "stop being such a whiny baby and to take charge of your own life, stop blaming others for your circumstances" on his facebook comment thing. He delete's the post and b1tchs at me about it.
I'm about ready to tell these two friends to go fvck themselves, I've never asked either one of them for help with anything. I have helped them both in the past and did not expect anything in return besides being a genuine friend. But they seem to not be able to understand that I have a life outside of them with work, school, and organizations I'm a part of. During my first week of school, the first friend I mentioned said to me "Have fun running away from your problems in college land?" WTF? I tried to give them the benefit of the doubt with being crazy, but they've just driven me too far.
Anyone else with friends like this?
The other night, the girl flipped out on me because I told her I had a long day at work and was going to go to bed. Then she's yelling at me "What the FVCK! I got a flat tire on my way to see you (and the rest of our friends) and this is how you treat me!?" I told her it's not my fault that she got a flat tire, that she's just having a bad day, and to call me tomorrow. She continued to freak out at me texting me 20 times in a row about how much of an assh0le I am and how I walk all over her.. Haven't talked to her for a week now.
About 2 weeks before this, my car broke down too and I called her to see if she could let me put some important stuff in her car to bring to my house, no answer to the call, and no text back.
I have another friend too.. A typical "nice guy" who just does what everyone tells him to. He always leaves his stuff over my house (jacket, ipod, CDs) just normal sh1t like that. No big deal really. He calls me up and asks me if I can give him back his iPod and I say "Yeah sure, I'm just really busy this week.. But if you want to walk to my house and grab it my roomate will be home during these hours" He says "OK" So I figure he grabs his stuff.
2 weeks later I get texts and calls from him about his ipod and I'm like "Oh I thought you grabbed it all ready" and he says "No I don't feel like walking to your place just come to my place and drop it off".... Now, I live maybe a 20-30 minute walk away from this guy. He doesn't have a car and he's unemployed. He doesn't feel like walking to grab his posession when he has ALL DAY to do it and it's fairly nice weather out. Whereas I work 6 (sometimes 7) days a week, and on my day off I have a hell of a lot of other stuff to do that I put off all week due to work.
I know I could easily just drive to this guys house and drop his thing off, but he needs to learn that everyone can't cater to his every need. He freaks out and posts some phony facebook thing about our town being full of "selfish assh0les" and describes me in that context, says I was cooler a few years ago blah blah. I told him to "stop being such a whiny baby and to take charge of your own life, stop blaming others for your circumstances" on his facebook comment thing. He delete's the post and b1tchs at me about it.
I'm about ready to tell these two friends to go fvck themselves, I've never asked either one of them for help with anything. I have helped them both in the past and did not expect anything in return besides being a genuine friend. But they seem to not be able to understand that I have a life outside of them with work, school, and organizations I'm a part of. During my first week of school, the first friend I mentioned said to me "Have fun running away from your problems in college land?" WTF? I tried to give them the benefit of the doubt with being crazy, but they've just driven me too far.
Anyone else with friends like this?