"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Friends/Spitting Game

612_Da_Playa

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What ever happen to just being a girl's friend without being a punk method? Does anyone use it? It seems like most people I know just try to spit a lil game and get with the girl for some reason(popularity,sex,her looks, what have you) I mean does anyone just try to be koo with a girl anymore and get with them like that? Especially with these black girls they know about spitting game. Any thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Smooth Player 056

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Originally posted by 612_Da_Playa
What ever happen to just being a girl's friend without being a punk method? Does anyone use it? It seems like most people I know just try to spit a lil game and get with the girl for some reason(popularity,sex,her looks, what have you) I mean does anyone just try to be koo with a girl anymore and get with them like that? Especially with these black girls they know about spitting game. Any thoughts?
....they think they know.
 

i am me

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Spitting game doesn't work smart girls usually. Kinda makes it better though because you're not dating some dumb h0
 
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