Basically I was gonna go pre-partying with two of my (AFC) friends. Long story short, Friend A went over to Friend B's house, assuming I'd be there as well. I called Friend B and talked to him on the phone and he said that he was gonna go to Girl A's house and I just assumed that I could go with them. He started to get awkward on the phone, and eventually I got it out of him that it wouldn't be legit if I went there. I don't really hang out with Girl A and her crowd, save for Friend B (Friend A doesn't hang out with them either), so I can see that, but for me to be completely excluded seems a bit childish. Honestly, I'm not missing much; all of those girls are stuck up and there's probably one hot girl in the group. But it's more of the principle that I'm having a problem with; I thought I was on good terms with typically everyone at my school and now my "reality" has been distorted and I've fallen out of "state". I shouldn't care, considering Girl A's crowd isn't that fun to hang around with anyway, but for some reason I do and I'm upset with my friends for "excluding" me (even though Friend B was just kind of warning me that if I went, it might be weird. I came to the decision that I wouldn't want to pre-party in that environment if people didn't want me there)
Anyway, I'm going pre-partying with some other friends of mine which have more status connected to them, so it should be a fun night... but the problem is that typically when something like this happens, I'm going to dwell on it the entire night and ruin my game for the evening.
Do you guys have any advice on how to not let this ruin my night (tonight's gonna be pretty fun!) or any ways to get pumped up and realign myself?
The sooner the answer, the better, obviously, as I'm probably leaving in an hour to go out. Thanks again guys.
Anyway, I'm going pre-partying with some other friends of mine which have more status connected to them, so it should be a fun night... but the problem is that typically when something like this happens, I'm going to dwell on it the entire night and ruin my game for the evening.
Do you guys have any advice on how to not let this ruin my night (tonight's gonna be pretty fun!) or any ways to get pumped up and realign myself?
The sooner the answer, the better, obviously, as I'm probably leaving in an hour to go out. Thanks again guys.