OK this question isn't aimed at ultimately 'hooking up with' any female friend, but it is something that has just been plain bugging me and has got me stumped.
I have a bunch of friends, males and females. Now having both genders in a group of friends, there's often hugs etc. exchanged, completely friendly. It's also common for small jokes to be exchanged such as 'come to bed with me <name>
' and it's all fun and well.
BUT, the thing is, i'm basically the one person who has never been asked for a hug from any of the females.... and the playful jokes are never directed towards me. Don't get me wrong, I have fun with all female friends and we get along well, it's just in these small situations I wonder why I am left out.
I just don't understand... i'm not an intimidating guy, i get along with everyone great, and it's not like i come off as 'creepy' to them because, to be quite honest, I have no interest in any of them any further than friends.
Example: if GirlA is laying on couch, she may just put her legs across someone who wants to sit there, so she stills gets to lay etc. But it's almost guaranteed that she'll sit up when i'm on it, and not interfere with my space. She'll also most likely move her stuff for me and be like "don't mind all my crap" etc.
Any ideas on why this could be? This isn't a big deal on it's own, but I figure if , for example, i'm walking around with a "don't touch me or i'll kill you" look on my face, then it will extend to women i'm actually interested in and that's no good.
I have a bunch of friends, males and females. Now having both genders in a group of friends, there's often hugs etc. exchanged, completely friendly. It's also common for small jokes to be exchanged such as 'come to bed with me <name>
' and it's all fun and well.BUT, the thing is, i'm basically the one person who has never been asked for a hug from any of the females.... and the playful jokes are never directed towards me. Don't get me wrong, I have fun with all female friends and we get along well, it's just in these small situations I wonder why I am left out.
I just don't understand... i'm not an intimidating guy, i get along with everyone great, and it's not like i come off as 'creepy' to them because, to be quite honest, I have no interest in any of them any further than friends.
Example: if GirlA is laying on couch, she may just put her legs across someone who wants to sit there, so she stills gets to lay etc. But it's almost guaranteed that she'll sit up when i'm on it, and not interfere with my space. She'll also most likely move her stuff for me and be like "don't mind all my crap" etc.
Any ideas on why this could be? This isn't a big deal on it's own, but I figure if , for example, i'm walking around with a "don't touch me or i'll kill you" look on my face, then it will extend to women i'm actually interested in and that's no good.