friends of gfs never like me

[J.R.G.G]

For some reason friends (iam talking about female friends not male friends) of my gfs never like me. I have never came to understand why, for istance some years ago i was with this girl bf/gf and she would always tell me how her girl friends never liked me that they were always giving her advice to leave me and the usual ''they're other fish on the sea''.

Recently i was with this other girl, when i was with her she would act crazy for me and used to confess me how she missed me when i was not with her, that she would always be dialing my # and then hanging up before it ringed because she didnt want to sound too desperate. Some days ago she told me that one of her girl friends used to tell her that theyre alot of other guys that she should meet and for her to not bother with me.

Now, this are all exes, and i never treated them bad or was a jerk or an asZ with them, i also never offended any of their friends for them not to like me. Usually those friends that didnt like me where not in a stable Relationship, some where real ho3s, ''party girls'', one of them was a real good girl, and most guys would always cheat on her or didnt take her seriously.



I really dont know how to react when a gf tells me that one of her friends is telling her to leave me or find other guys, i usually try to say things like ''i dont tolerate a third person controlling a two person thing, so dont let that b*tch interfere'' or '' that girl should be worried about her shytty life first''


What is the best way to handle situations like those, in my opinion its about having the ''balls'' . But how would you handle this?

 

[brenbaus]

who cares what her friends think of you, if she wants to keep you around as a friend, that is not her friends decision

 

[J.R.G.G]

i know brenbaus, iam not asking for advice for the friends to like me, honestly I dont give a Fuk what anybody thinks of me, dosent bother me at all.

 

[brenbaus]

I wasnt clear on what you were saying in the original post, now it is posted so someone else with the same problem can look at it

 

[RaWBLooD]

just spend as much time with her as the relationship can handle and shell have less time for those *****es to nag in her ear.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Your post gives me headaches, please structure it in a more logical format.

To be brief, Her friends not liking you is a big thing - they can poison your gf. But it is ultimately your gf choice for listening to them, and if she listens to them more than she wants to be with you - She's no good.

Deal with it or Walk away. Don't do what the above has suggested, it won't work - I know cause I've been there trying to deal with dumb ass women messing things up. Once they hate you, you know your gf will be influenced by their stupidness, they don't really care about your gf, they just want her to be who she was before, a slave to them.

 

[Da Realist]

Try not having her friends or some of her family not liking you. I know, " you're a bad dude if some of the family don't like you." Actually I'm not, but race had a hand in the matter. My g/f almost did call it off, but I told her she was the one who had to make the decision to suffer because we broke up and not them. The truth is, your g/f's friends are probaly jealous of her and just want her to leave you so she can spend the rest of her life listening to how bad men treat them. The thing is that they would leave her to spend time with some guy they think is the greatest man on earth. So my only advice is to keep your head up and don't let those crows get in the way of what you got going on.