Friend's little sister

[MikeYikes122]

I was out at a party with some friends last night and I confirmed a feeling I'd been having for a while now: My friend's little sister is in to me.

What are the politics of a situation like this?

I'm obviously not going to be able to take her home and hook up with her or anything like that.

A different friend advised me that I'm allowed to date her, but I can't date multiple girls at the same time or spin plates or anything like that while I'm with her. You guys agree with that?

Or is this a situation I should just avoid altogether?

I'm leaning most towards just avoiding her, but the b!tch of this whole thing is, the more I ignore her and put off her come-ons, the more she is going to want me. We all know that's how it works.

She is a cool girl and is pretty attractive. Under normal circumstances I would give her a chance, but there's obviously a huge hitch.

BTW she is 23 and I am 25, so this isn't some bizarre situation where I'm thinking about dating a 17-year-old girl. I just wanted to clarify that.

 

[marinetti]

obviously you don't owe anything to your friend, but if it were me I would make sure she knew i was interested in her, and then tell her brother i was interested in her too. honesty is the best policy. if she's not interested, you've dodged a bullet. if she is interested and he's pissed, then, well, proceed, and hope for the best with him. If she's interested and he's cool, then you've just joined the family.

if you sneakily start sleeping with her, and then a bad breakup happens, you'll likely lose the friend too.

 

[STR8UP]

When I was like 17 I could have fukked friends little sister. What a little FREAK. That whole family was weird. I think I remember the sister trying to pull me into her room and her brother encouraging me to go. That was my first experience with a temptress.

SHE WAS 15!

A situation like this.....gotta take it on a case by case basis.

 

[MikeYikes122]

When I was like 17 I could have fukked friends little sister. What a little FREAK. That whole family was weird. I think I remember the sister trying to pull me into her room and her brother encouraging me to go. That was my first experience with a temptress.

SHE WAS 15!

A situation like this.....gotta take it on a case by case basis.

Haha that response made me laugh out loud. The older brother was actually endorsing this?

He sounds like a heckuva friend.

 

[STR8UP]

Haha that response made me laugh out loud. The older brother was actually endorsing this?

He sounds like a heckuva friend.

Yea, he was overtly encouraging me. Saying, "Go ahead, go to her room with her!"

I spent the night over at their house one night and I think she might have tried to molest me in my sleep cause the next day she asked me if I "felt anything" last night or something of the sort.

I was real scared of girls back then, lol

I should have hit it, she wasn't bad looking. Actually my brother hooked up with her a few years after that and i think he might even still be in contact with her to this day.

He even invited her over to my parents house a year or two ago. that was kind of awkward. Having to face this chick who wrote me a letter when she was 15 wondering why I was so "square".