"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well I want to know what should I do about this. I know this girl in school that I hang around with alot. We kinda flirt around, talk alot, laugh and all that good stuff not really sure if she likes me but this girl is my buddies girlfriend but he goes to a different school. I am attracted to his girlfriend for many reasons. I notice when she is around him and when am around aswell she talks to me more and comes my way more often. I also notice that he does not know how to treat her well in anykind of way he does not take her out anywhere, does not make her feel good. he just does not to anything and I want her to see that I can treat her way better then him. I have gone out with her kinda like a date and see her most of the time in school and am really in love with her now I just dont know what to do. And am kinda worried because she is my friends girlfriend. Can anyone help me out or tell me how can I win this girl? or should I not go for it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Man go **** ur self. I hate *****es like u. I cant wait till u get a girlfriend and some dude trys to steal her from u.. yeh u'll be feelin real good wont u? Obviously if she wanted a fag like u she would have him. BUT SHE DOESNT.

Go for a girl who is single. Thats all im trying to say hear. I don't mean to get upset over this because i dont think you would like a guy trying to steal your girlfriend. Just put your self in his situation and pretend you have a girlfriend then pretend theres a guy trying to steal her from you . Now wouldnt you wanna go knock his fukin lights out?
 
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If you steal the girl of your friend then you are not worth to be spit at. :down:
 
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I stole girls a few times. I mean just fo sex. Once i stole for real. The deal is. Never steal girl of the person that You know or that You like or respect. And never ever touch gf of friend. But as i said. Friend or girl. You cant have both. And even if You could beeing friend and stealing girl is not possible so dont be such an ass.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you had a choice between having honor, dignity , and respect vs having sex. Which would you chose?
 
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Originally posted by DDevil
If you had a choice between having honor, dignity , and respect vs having sex. Which would you chose?
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NIcer way to show a diffferent perspective. You have to decide whether you want the girl or your friend. Personally, I would beat the sh*t out of you if you tried to take my GF and I was your friend. If the guy isn't your friend , then it is o.k. to try and take the girl, if you are willing to bear the consecuences. But you shouldn't take this girl from your friend. UNtil you are married, your priorities should be friends, fmaily, then girls(friends and family are interchangeable depending on opinion.).
 
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Love is a strong strong word to use. 99% of teens just lust, not love. So be very careful before you start putting that word into sentences.

It's simple, what's more important to you..your friendship with your buddy, or this girl. This is the kind of situation where you need to look at things in black or white.
 
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