"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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paraguayandj

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Ok this is a really akward situation. I was in a party today and i got pretty drunk so i started hitting on one of my friends girlfriend and she was giving me really good signs. Now, she is really hot but she's my friend's girl and i don't know if i should tell this to my friend or keep it to myself or tell it to somebody else. I have no idea what to do actually. I don't know if i want to hit that becuase she is my boy's girlfriend. What do you guys think i should do?


PS. I am reallly wasted right now and im gonna fix some of the grammar later when I sober up but i still need your advice thou:eek:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rocky_mtn

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Don't hit on friends girlfriends.

Notbhing wrong with getting wasted, but you might misinterpert her signals so I would say just let it go. Nothing wrong with being friendly with friends g/f's but leave it at that.
 
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