Friends First?!

[frivolousz21]

Is this best way?

have any of you had success this way?

with my current gf.

we were friends for a long time before finally getting together.


now grantide I was never in the LJBF zone.

just never took actions on this.

and now so far after 3 weeks...we have a great relationship...

most inpart that we were friends..there is great trust.and we already know alot of each other.

it seems to have propelled the infactuation.

has anyone else expierenced this?

and is this a better way?






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[frivolousz21]

also..sex isnt as important as I once thought it was.

and I apoligize to those that I flamed over it.


as long as she sees u in a sexual way..sex isnt as important.

unless she is a HOR

then ur literally screwed anyways.

 

[Tazman]

as long as she sees u in a sexual way..sex isnt as important.

unless she is a HOR

then ur literally screwed anyways.

Does this mean that if she's a hor she will place greater importance on sex, and if you don't live up to her expectations(sexually) she'll dump you?

 

[Recluce]

nah man...it has very little importance in that respect.

friends first is a big part of my game though. telling women that they seem like they would make a nice friend, and telling her that shes not being a good friend when she starts being standoffish. it gets her thinking,"why the hell does he just want to be friends? why doesn't he want to **** me like all the other men that i know?"

women actually start coming after you and making the moves on you.

 

[Double]

yeah it has it's advantages as you pointed out.....but you forgot about the disadvantages.....

-takes too much time
-girls are desperate so usually she will go get another guy even if he is below you because she is disappointed in you and thinks you wont make any romantic moves soon.
-takes too much time


but if it happens naturally then ooooooright have fun

 

[Tazman]

nah man...it has very little importance in that respect.friends first is a big part of my game though. telling women that they seem like they would make a nice friend, and telling her that shes not being a good friend when she starts being standoffish. it gets her thinking,"why the hell does he just want to be friends? why doesn't he want to **** me like all the other men that i know?"

women actually start coming after you and making the moves on you.

Really? I thought that move was supposed to land you in LJBF territory.

 

[Jariel]

Yeah, this works for me too. Most of the women I've been involved with have started out as friends as I like to get to know them before I consider dating them. It starts as a friendship, gets flirty and escalates from there.

My only advice is not to try and be her best friend, as that's what you'll become.

 

[Tazman]

My only advice is not to try and be her best friend, as that's what you'll become.

Ahh, as long as there's some flirtyness.

 

[MetalFortress]

You're dating a more conservative type of girl, and for these type of girls, it's a LOT more important than for those who will cheat on you if you don't eff them within a month.

 

[christz]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
also..sex isnt as important as I once thought it was.

and I apoligize to those that I flamed over it.


as long as she sees u in a sexual way..sex isnt as important.

unless she is a HOR

then ur literally screwed anyways.

friv aren't you the one who opened up a HUGE debate with me on the essence of a man. and you claimed that all you need to do is sex a girl and that be the end of it.

while i said that wasen't as important as building a foundation for a awesome relationship you went off on a tangent saying how if a MAN doesn't think sex is the single most important thing, then he's just lying to himself.

heh i'm glad you finally see it the way i've saw it

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
also..sex isnt as important as I once thought it was.

and I apoligize to those that I flamed over it.


as long as she sees u in a sexual way..sex isnt as important.

unless she is a HOR

then ur literally screwed anyways.

The only time sex isn't important is when you are getting it often. Would you still have the same opinion if you weren't getting any? It tends to become important when that happens.

 

[mungro]

so what's LFBF stand for? I kinda get the meaning from context... but its a new abbreviation for me.

 

[frivolousz21]

great reply's!!!


sex is important my friend....when I say sex isnt as important I am refering to the emotional aspect of it...honestly whats going on now with my lady is more important..because its good to have a good lady by your side.

in a month or two that will change..I will want sex

also sex isnt important in the aspect of falling in love.

the idea of sex..and being sexual is. but not the act itself..not at first atleast.



Lets just be friends.

 

[Recluce]

Originally posted by Double
yeah it has it's advantages as you pointed out.....but you forgot about the disadvantages.....

-takes too much time
-girls are desperate so usually she will go get another guy even if he is below you because she is disappointed in you and thinks you wont make any romantic moves soon.
-takes too much time


but if it happens naturally then ooooooright have fun

you are quite correct. it usually takes more time. but i tend to have more fun with it both in and out of bed and i am able to keep more women around at one time.