Friends First

[The Duke]

cBeen talking to this chic, haven't met in person yet. She is late 30's, educated, has her life in order, divorced, analytical, seems to be a little more rational thinking than most. She is big on "being friends first" and not rushing into anything. She claims she wants a best friend first, then a more sexual/intimate relationship. So she says!!!

It sounds like she has a few guy "friends" that she met thru online dating. I'm guessing they were pretty beta. They obviously are if they are still around and not having sechs with her. One she dated and he ended up falling for her and to profess his love bought her a brand new car! (LMFAO, my lord guys are stupid). It did nothing to help his cause, in fact it had a totally opposite effect and she refused to accept his car.

Her cautious approach matches what it says for her astrological sign. Her pictures tell me she is pretty reserved. There are no boobs hanging out, no bikini pics. She is an HB8. The more I talk to her, the more she opens up. She definitely is responsive on the phone. I was supposed to go out with her a few weeks ago and it didn't happen. I just let it die and she reinitiated contact a few days ago. She's already thrown 2 schit tests at me and I handled that with flying colors, even got complimented on it.

I've never had a girl approach a new relationship like this before so am not sure if this will turn out to be a waste of time or what? Anybody experience this type before? I just find it very hard to believe that a woman would have the self control to "remain just friends" for very long with a guy that knew what he was doing and she had attraction for.

 

[Yewki]

Welcome to her frame. Take a seat, she'll be with you shortly

 

[ZTIME]

Sexual attraction in women is hilarious! They'll try to convince you that they're not easy. They believe this helps to increase your investment into there vagina. For lots of guys it does. Apparently she's already experienced it with other men.

I once met a girl at the beach. Got her number, and met up for lunch a few days later.
During our lunch she told me how religious she was and how God told her she needed to meet me, that I was a good soul (never new Christian gods liked Buddhists). But she was saving svx for marrige.

This girl would text me bible verses once a day followed up with questions about my day etc. I ignored them. Within 7 days (maybe a biblical thing) she sends me this long text saying how nice I was and was wondering why I was ignoring her. To that text I replied "meet me at ABC for lunch and I'll explain".

We met and I told her that I had no interest in pursuing women where svx is not an option. I didn't want to waste her time. Never saw someone back pedal so fast on religion and morals.

She texted me at 10pm the next evening. She came to my place within 20min. Wearing a smile and a long jacket.

The moral is that women like the chase because they think it makes them more valuable. Stop chasing and see how fast they turn around on what they told you.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Yup, they like to see if you are bluffing.
"I an not ready for a physical relationship with you."
"That's a pity. I was going to **** your brains out. Oh well, see ya."
"What! Oh. I guess I am ready after all."

 

[JJRocker]

They want to be slutty little tramps! They just don't want to be seen as one!

Meet with her but do not spend a lot if any money on her! Employ kino, escelate as necessary then take her somewhere she has never had sex before and dog her like has never been dogged before!

She is very likely to see you as a god!

Women all want to be with a sexually dominant man!

There is a gal Ive been seeing on and off for months who acts virginal and pure. Funny! She wants to be taken! She wants to be treated like a slut!

Women are not what they appear!

Go get her and do her!

If you go with the friends first approach some sexually dominant man will do her give her what she wants and it'll be game over for you bro!

 

[The Duke]

Update.....
This girl initiated texts and showed good interest for a few days before our date we had planned yesterday. Two hours before our date, I texted her to confirm our plans and then she starts up the excuse factory, and wants to reschedule for later in the week. I told her we could meet later that evening and she agrees, then I get a text saying the weather was bad and she was sore! Must have got boned good by some other dude! lol, these girls are rediculous. Enough is enough.

 

[ubercat]

Most late thirties chicks r looking for providers. Doesn't matter if they have their own money they d prefer to spend some man's. She probably found a rich dude or 1 who is on her approved professions list

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

She's a time waster. If a woman is into you she will find a way to see you.