Friends + Drinking = You Getting A Shot

[Paid Laid & Made]

Okay Guys.

For the first time ever, I might actually be able to contribute to our forum and shed light on a very interesting concepts/ theory I came up with this week. Ofcourse, I conducted field tests, checking the authenticity of my theory and to collect a few more pieces of information and advice to help fellow DJ's in need.

How many of you guy's have very attractive female buddies, who only see you as THE FRIEND? You listen to most of their petty a$$ issues and you get nothing in return ... you try and bring yourself in the relationship picture when things are going down-hill with the current guy and you get her favorite line ... "Our relationship means to much, I dont want to ruin it by dating you" or "Your like a brother to me". GUH, why does everybody get a shot except you? Is it fair? NO. If your still with me check this ...

I went on a drinking get together with one of my best friends (Girl). First time we only had 1 drink and just hung out and talked ... your the friend, so why not? Second time, we drank more and chatted about more important stuff. I walked away with a kiss at the end of our 2nd time drinking. We both had consumed quite a bit. BAM! I just catapulted myself into the relationship picture or atleast gave myself a solid foundation to continue fighting to get my shot with her.

See what happened? Okay, I will enlighten you guys. Most girls, do not want to ruin a sure thing or just are little insecure biznatches and do not want their friends discovering that you got a shot at them. There are bunches of other reasons. IF you are sober ... there is a slim chance of you walking away with a kiss or even more, if your just the FRIEND. Let's be real, if your the FRIEND, you are her emotional tampon and not Mr. Hunky with confidence who can protect her in messed up situations or treat her like dirt when she is down and that would just be WRONG. IF you use an opportunity like a drinking session (most girls love drinking especially due to a little fact known as ... ILLEGAL, if your under a certain age). Now here is what you just DID.

1) Your the BAD BOY. (WOW, you are the guy breaking the rules and showing you got a set)

Then you still have the factor that most girls, do not want to be slvts. But IF they would be a bit tipsy and would accidentally do something with you, it would be okay, because it was you who invited them and got them drunk and afterall they are just the defenseless women being taken advantage of. So they can write anything happening off as the alcohol having influenced their perfect decision making process.

WOW. Look. They get a fun night out with a friend, you walk away with a kiss or maybe something a little better and the next morning you have something to blame it on. Believe it or not, in some women's mind's if a guy is a good kisser, he deserves a shot, once again perfect avenue for you finally getting what you DESERVE. IF that is not enough ... for your next fight (trust me, I know you b1tch on the phone and cracked asking her why you never get a shot and other guys do) you now have leverage, you can bring up that special night both of you kissed.

I am still checking into how my situation is going to pan out today. I will post any updated. Please, if you got anything to add or want to post your comments, go ahead.

 

[tactic]

Hahaha a great post. You forgot a number 2 after you put a 1) there....unless it was on purpose. Anyway yeah i agree with the fact that you are the bad boy and that girls don't want to ruin anything. They also don't want to be hostile with guys either.

Great post, man.

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Anyway um... Social Proof is one thing if you want a girl you like to walk away and kiss you after a long night of drinking.

How?...

Well here is how... What you need is a good trustworthy friend who is a chick DEFINETLY. You need to bring one of the trustworthy chick and go out for a drink and then you need to make sure she lets her friend (that you like, and which you are friends with her too.) know that you are trustworthy and that you're not one of those desperate f*cks who rapes chicks out of nowhere. Then the girl that you like will start to be more comfortable around you and trust you.. then one day you can ask her to have a drink and some time maybe a few days later or maybe even on the first day, she might walk away with a kiss.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Well it depends. If you've been at the friends level for half a year+ and her interest level is obviously not in your sexual favor. Don't even do this. However if you know there's chemistry (mutual chemistry) and are not in the friends zone.. JUST DO IT.. and see what she does.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Eh.

I say give it a shot. Worst case she'll turn you down.

 

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[Lone_raider]

LOL, I found this amusing but it probably would work. So you get her schnockered (how that's spelled beats me but it's my favorite term for drunk) then go for the old drunken make out. I do remember one time I was out with my friend and his girlfriend, she was mad at him and sat next to me at the table, she decided to drink a lot that night and she eventually ended up with her head in my lap right at the table and I beleive she said something to the order of being able to open zippers with her teeth! lol. Of course with my friend sitting there looking angry and being in a restaurant I wasn't going to pursue that further. None the less, her inhibitions went away after just a few drinks

 

[HuuBinh]

PLM, this "concept" of yours has been written by Allen before, just a slight variation.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

LOL.

WoW, good story. You should have checked if she is really that good with the zipper and her teeth. Believe it or now, most girls sometimes act more drunk then what they are. So then everything they do can be put off as to much alcohol in their mind.

Seriously? I am very sorry. Was unaware of that fact.

 

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[b's nuts]

its just the drinking, nothing to do with you being her friend. When a girl gets to a certain point being drunk, everything goes out the window. I had a friend, who I know I never stood a chance with (recently cut ties, i decided i don't fvck with girls im not going to bang) to show me her tits, and was on top of me ready to hump, all because of the 100 proof vodka she drank, nothing else.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Okay.

This post is not about feeling up some girl when she is intoxicated. I am talking about placing yourself in the running and maybe even crawling out of that miserable little hole called "FRIEND ZONE". Its about showing her a good time with you as the MAN and not her FRIEND. It about doing small little things which she will remember and not just grabbing her tit or pu$$y.

This is a long term investement ... it has to be handled carefully.

 

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