theobserver
Don Juan
Here's my situation:
i used to be the leader of my social circle. then i stopped hangin out with them/stopped being invited to there ****. now they've been talking a lot of **** about me and all there inside jokes are getting annoying. now i usually am the bigger man and i'm more mature than all of them to take it personal, but apparently they've lost respect. is there a way to gain it back? or should i just find better friends. i hang out with them at school, so it's a little awkward. now this is always on and off for some reason, but i want to know that i'm not gonna take there **** anymore. sometimes i think it's out of jealousy and/or envy. but how would i handle it? cool, calm, unaffected? or just amog them right back. keep in mind, it's usually serious and uncalled for, like it's unnecessary. i can always find other friends, but i've known them for a long time (since 4th grade) what would you guys do?
i used to be the leader of my social circle. then i stopped hangin out with them/stopped being invited to there ****. now they've been talking a lot of **** about me and all there inside jokes are getting annoying. now i usually am the bigger man and i'm more mature than all of them to take it personal, but apparently they've lost respect. is there a way to gain it back? or should i just find better friends. i hang out with them at school, so it's a little awkward. now this is always on and off for some reason, but i want to know that i'm not gonna take there **** anymore. sometimes i think it's out of jealousy and/or envy. but how would i handle it? cool, calm, unaffected? or just amog them right back. keep in mind, it's usually serious and uncalled for, like it's unnecessary. i can always find other friends, but i've known them for a long time (since 4th grade) what would you guys do?