"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Friend's Cheating Girl

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Ok guys, this has turned into a serious problem. My closest friend, we'll call him Sam, has been dating this chick we'll call her Kristen for a year and a half now. He is way up her ass but I'm okay with that cause he generally still knows how to go out and have a good time without her. Anyhow, I've just recently discovered that she has made out with two other guys while they've been together and been having sex with another guy throughout most of their relationship. I definately think I'm obligated to tell him this. It came straight from her mouth, I'm pretty good friends with her as well. Or at least I was til I found this out. Guys, how do I tell him that his girl who he's put so much into has been cheating him blind for most of the relationship? Please help. If you've had to deal with this situation please tell me what you did. Even if you've never had this happen please let me know if you have an opinion. I'm planning to tell him the next time I see him, probably this weekend. I need to know the best ways to approach him and inform him of this. Thanks guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bump. surely someone has some kind of advice they could give. None of you guys have never had anything remotely similar happen to a friends of yours? Come on now, help me out.
 

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E-mail him a link to this thread and in the e-mail be sure to say, "You are 'Sam'."

Problem solved. :woo:
 
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