"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friend's Cheating Girl

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Ok guys, this has turned into a serious problem. My closest friend, we'll call him Sam, has been dating this chick we'll call her Kristen for a year and a half now. He is way up her ass but I'm okay with that cause he generally still knows how to go out and have a good time without her. Anyhow, I've just recently discovered that she has made out with two other guys while they've been together and been having sex with another guy throughout most of their relationship. I definately think I'm obligated to tell him this. It came straight from her mouth, I'm pretty good friends with her as well. Or at least I was til I found this out. Guys, how do I tell him that his girl who he's put so much into has been cheating him blind for most of the relationship? Please help. If you've had to deal with this situation please tell me what you did. Even if you've never had this happen please let me know if you have an opinion. I'm planning to tell him the next time I see him, probably this weekend. I need to know the best ways to approach him and inform him of this. Thanks guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bump. surely someone has some kind of advice they could give. None of you guys have never had anything remotely similar happen to a friends of yours? Come on now, help me out.
 

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E-mail him a link to this thread and in the e-mail be sure to say, "You are 'Sam'."

Problem solved. :woo:
 
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