Friends baby mama disrespected me

[jaymbrs]

all I did was kick it with my boy while she was out of town and sent me texts calling me gay, a b!tch, a lame and that I ****ed her family up. There’s obviously something up that I’m unaware of for her to lash out like that but I think that’s a line crossed. My friend said that was out of line but that’s about it. Him and I aren’t ghetto people but his girl is trash. Thinking I need to sever ties with this couple.

brief background, her and I never saw eye to eye. I always thought she was trash and she thought I was a bad influence on my friend solely because I haven’t settled down.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Your poor friend. Can't imagine what this insecure psychotic girl must put him through behind closed doors. And for him to shrug it off with "yeah, she was out of line" tells you that he's getting 100x time what she gave you, daily. Sounds like this dude lost his balls a while back.

 

[jaymbrs]

Your poor friend. Can't imagine what this insecure psychotic girl must put him through behind closed doors. And for him to shrug it off with "yeah, she was out of line" tells you that he's getting 100x time what she gave you, daily. Sounds like this dude lost his balls a while back.

You're 100% right. But at the end of the day he chose her as his GF then made the biggest mistake to knock her up so I don't feel sorry for him at all.

 

[Barrister]

all I did was kick it with my boy while she was out of town and sent me texts calling me gay, a b!tch, a lame and that I ****ed her family up. There’s obviously something up that I’m unaware of for her to lash out like that but I think that’s a line crossed. My friend said that was out of line but that’s about it. Him and I aren’t ghetto people but his girl is trash. Thinking I need to sever ties with this couple.

brief background, her and I never saw eye to eye. I always thought she was trash and she thought I was a bad influence on my friend solely because I haven’t settled down.

Tell your friend that you don’t put up with negativity in your life. He has to make his own decisions on who is in his, but you aren’t going to deal with his girlfriend anymore even extraneously. He’ll get the message. He will have to find his own way but he at least knows where you stand at that point.

 

[bat soup]

all I did was kick it with my boy while she was out of town and sent me texts calling me gay, a b!tch, a lame and that I ****ed her family up. There’s obviously something up that I’m unaware of for her to lash out like that but I think that’s a line crossed. My friend said that was out of line but that’s about it. Him and I aren’t ghetto people but his girl is trash. Thinking I need to sever ties with this couple.

brief background, her and I never saw eye to eye. I always thought she was trash and she thought I was a bad influence on my friend solely because I haven’t settled down.

Why on earth does this psycho have your number? I'd just block her and let him deal with her. It's not your problem.

 

[Kotaix]

Too bad, so sad.

One of my friends was dating a woman that started attacking him when she got smashed drunk. I never spoke to either of them again because I have zero respect for her, and I won't interact with him because she tags along everywhere she goes. Last I heard she had talked him into buying her a house.

 

[9-3enthusiast]

brief background, her and I never saw eye to eye. I always thought she was trash and she thought I was a bad influence on my friend solely because I haven’t settled down.

"bad influence" ---> She's worried he'll start to hanker for the single lifestyle that you have....
She probably calls it... 'leading him astray'

I've had similar comments/insinuations from wives of friends since I started dating again after my divorce.
Though nowhere near as aggressively as she did to you.

 

[deadmasterx]

What the world doesn't speak about is that women are way more likely to perpetrate psychological and emotional violence than men are. Men are mostly simple and 'immature' emotionally to the point they can't really attack it (or defend it) even if they want to, that's why most cases of male violence on women are physical. The marks of physical violence are clear, but psychological and emotional ones deserves only a "man up" if you're a man.

It's a bit sad, but the truth is that men don't have the right to be weak, never.

 

[Dash Riprock]

all I did was kick it with my boy while she was out of town and sent me texts calling me gay, a b!tch, a lame and that I ****ed her family up. There’s obviously something up that I’m unaware of for her to lash out like that but I think that’s a line crossed. My friend said that was out of line but that’s about it. Him and I aren’t ghetto people but his girl is trash. Thinking I need to sever ties with this couple.

brief background, her and I never saw eye to eye. I always thought she was trash and she thought I was a bad influence on my friend solely because I haven’t settled down.

How did she get your number? If you didn't give it to her your friend did which is unacceptable.

If it were me, I'd pass on the negativity and B.S. and tell your friend to hit you up when she's out of the picture.

 

[xplt]

How did she get your number? If you didn't give it to her your friend did which is unacceptable.

Psychos go through your phone. Always

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

What the world doesn't speak about is that women are way more likely to perpetrate psychological and emotional violence than men are. Men are mostly simple and 'immature' emotionally to the point they can't really attack it (or defend it) even if they want to, that's why most cases of male violence on women are physical. The marks of physical violence are clear, but psychological and emotional ones deserves only a "man up" if you're a man.

It's a bit sad, but the truth is that men don't have the right to be weak, never.

This is why we need to embrace manipulation to the fullest extent, to simply guard against it, the second you know the game these women are without teeth and that is what OPs homies girl is doing, she's literally trying to gum him without teeth because she has no other alternative

 

[jaymbrs]

Why on earth does this psycho have your number? I'd just block her and let him deal with her. It's not your problem.

How did she get your number? If you didn't give it to her your friend did which is unacceptable.

If it were me, I'd pass on the negativity and B.S. and tell your friend to hit you up when she's out of the picture.

I'm not exactly sure. They've been on and off for about 7 years now but just recently had children. I'm sure he gave it to her at some point. Either way I blocked her after about the 5th text (I didn't reply once) and told my friend that it was line crossing disrespect and that I'm not going to make any effort anymore with that b*tch. He understood.