So theres this girl that was in a class of mine this yr and through the entire year she had a boyfriend. I didnt put any time in cuz i figured eh its not worth any drama. Anyway she also constantly joked about marrying me someday because of my aspirations of being a doctor. so fast forward to end of school when she breaks up with the bf cuz hes a yr older than her (and 2 older than me) and he is going to college. so then like 2 wks later i see her at a party and she says "why havent you talked to your future wife this whole summer?!" and i was just like messin around and i was like "cuz im a big jerk. oh well. lol" so anyway (she already had my number and i had hers) she starts texting me and calling me like crazy. if i dont answer the phone she's texting me pretty much 10-12 hours a day. she's told me she thinks im hot and all kinds of stuff like that and so now were goin to the movies soon. my question is, given my past with her (being really good friends with her best friend since like kindergarten kinda forced me to know her a little) would it be outta place to kiss her on a first date? i dono. keep in mind age. (i'm 16, she's 17) give me yall's opinions please.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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