So theres this girl that was in a class of mine this yr and through the entire year she had a boyfriend. I didnt put any time in cuz i figured eh its not worth any drama. Anyway she also constantly joked about marrying me someday because of my aspirations of being a doctor. so fast forward to end of school when she breaks up with the bf cuz hes a yr older than her (and 2 older than me) and he is going to college. so then like 2 wks later i see her at a party and she says "why havent you talked to your future wife this whole summer?!" and i was just like messin around and i was like "cuz im a big jerk. oh well. lol" so anyway (she already had my number and i had hers) she starts texting me and calling me like crazy. if i dont answer the phone she's texting me pretty much 10-12 hours a day. she's told me she thinks im hot and all kinds of stuff like that and so now were goin to the movies soon. my question is, given my past with her (being really good friends with her best friend since like kindergarten kinda forced me to know her a little) would it be outta place to kiss her on a first date? i dono. keep in mind age. (i'm 16, she's 17) give me yall's opinions please.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
friends and kissing
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
You have to kiss this broad on the first date! Warm her up with a bunch of kino and make-out with her.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
you're 1 year apart.. doesn't matter lol
if you want to kiss her, kiss her.
you are the man in control)
if you want to kiss her, kiss her.
you are the man in control)
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
dude she wants you BADDDD
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dark Chivalry
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She is crazy about you. Kiss her, work that tongue.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Mate, she's yours for the taking. Work your magic and go home a happy man.