"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I really like this girl that is my age. We've been friends for about 2 years. The past couple of months I've started liking her, but she said in a recent phone call when I asked her if she would go out with this other guy that "she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now." I really like her but I'm not willing to wait until she feels like going out with someone to ask her out. Should I just ask her out or leave it alone?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wakeboarder said:
I really like this girl that is my age. We've been friends for about 2 years. The past couple of months I've started liking her, but she said in a recent phone call when I asked her if she would go out with this other guy that "she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now." I really like her but I'm not willing to wait until she feels like going out with someone to ask her out. Should I just ask her out or leave it alone?
Bible. I don't think I need to say much more.
 

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Wow....This one is kind of difficult because the problem is u have been friends with her for two years and unless she has shown interest in u it will most likely stay in the friend zone because thats how it works most of the times with girls.....I will advise you to live her alone because its very hard to get out of the friend zone.BELIEVE ME ITS EASIER TO GET ANOTHER GIRL THAN GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE.theres a big % that she is going to say no and u will have to pick your pieces up and im telling u it sure sucks when they do that.:kick: :kick: :kick: Im telling you this from experience...
 

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lildevil said:
Wow....This one is kind of difficult because the problem is u have been friends with her for two years and unless she has shown interest in u it will most likely stay in the friend zone because thats how it works most of the times with girls.....I will advise you to live her alone because its very hard to get out of the friend zone.BELIEVE ME ITS EASIER TO GET ANOTHER GIRL THAN GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE.theres a big % that she is going to say no and u will have to pick your pieces up and im telling u it sure sucks when they do that.:kick: :kick: :kick: Im telling you this from experience...
I've been friends with this girl since elementary school, but for about the past year or so she's been showing signs of being more than a friend. Like she's been a lot more flirty and even uses kino on me and such. Is this a good indication that she's out of the friend zone and I can make a move?
 

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Thanks for the advice. I'll probably still ask her out to see what happens because the friendship is falling apart anyway. Anyway, thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mr_rogers said:
Bible. I don't think I need to say much more.
agree. the guy needs the DJ version of the Bible.
 

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adpreston1988 said:
I've been friends with this girl since elementary school, but for about the past year or so she's been showing signs of being more than a friend. Like she's been a lot more flirty and even uses kino on me and such. Is this a good indication that she's out of the friend zone and I can make a move?
Just flirt back and play around the same way ,you are not going to loose anything... and well to find out a little bit more if she wants something with you You should at least start flirting with other girls(in her persence)Because it can play a little trick that will make u a little bit more attractive .This is good because When most girls that are interested in guys and see them flirting with other girls they start feeling jelous and see other girls as competion(it happens the same way with us) and more or less you will know this if she stares at you alot or every time you engage in conversations with her she will be much more interested in talking because its just the same as us ,girls dont like easy prey ,they like game and if u got game they will want you even more.....warning(results may vary):yes: :yes: :yes:
 

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i just met this girl about a month ago but she goes to a different school so i dont see her that often. i like her but i think we've reached "friend status" and i dont no wat to do, we were grinding a little in her last school dance but i think it was just friendly...... please help.

There's also another girl who ive liked for a year and a half but i think we're just friends. last year she liked me but i was too chicken to ask her out. do u think she still likes me annd if not how do i make her like me again

and is there any way to get one of them to ask me out??

cuz i always get wicked nervous wen im about to ask one of em out and i chicken out
 
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